Hi,
I got married in Feb 2014. I was not able to perform well in bed and found out that I have erectile dysfunction, I did not know that I have ED before marriage bec I was getting erection as well as able to mast*ate and maintain an hold till the sperm come out. I realised only after marriage that I could not hold for a full s*xual intercourse. My s*xual life went on for 2.5 months without missing even for a day. First month we thought that she was pregnant. When we went to the hospital the doc told it was due to "honeymoon cystitis" and not pregnant.
After 2.5 months, she started hating me, ill treated me and many petty problems started in our life. Finally 3rd month she told her parents about it. Big fight fought between both families and by 4th month we got seperated.
At 6th month, she filed for divorce. Now her lawyer is asking us to pay compensation (out of court) or many FIR will be filed against us. They also thretening us that they will sue us.
The 4 months she was here, myself n my parents treated her very well. It was she who illtreated me. We also returned all jewels brought by her making her and her family members sign in an ordinary paper that all things brought by her returned to them.
My questions right now is:
1. Can they sue me or ask for compensation? Will it leave me into a situation where i hav to pay lakhs to them.
2. She does not have any medical records to prove i hav ED, thought I went to doctor 2 times and once she accompanied me. There is no record in d hospital to prove i went to hospital. Can the court direct me to have potency test. IS THE TESTS compulsory or can I deny those tests if court directs me citing my privancy.
3. Thought I was able to insert, she is denying now that I did not get even partial erection to all. there is no way to prove myself i had an erection. if i go for tests, its going to be not in favour. I decided myself to take a video of my erection to prove that I had an erection and I did not cheat her in anyway. Thats d only way I hope to tell d court and d world that I did not cheat her in anyway. Is video evidence admission in a court of law. Is there any other way to prove I am still getting an erection even today.
4. She is also earning somewhat eqivalent.to me n she has studied more than me. No kids as I hav ED. Is she elegible for jevanamsam. She is 27 and surely she will remarry.
