Expert guidance reqd for further proceeding | dv, dowry, etc

you can file petition in family court or civil court in district for restitution of conjugal rights if th wife refuses to return it is good ground for seeking divorce if mutual understandings fail

can you prove about her qualification and past employment as engineer? can you show her income tax return ? does she still have the job ? if yes its good.

 

you don't have an issue, its good for you. court can't pressure you for maintainance. what about her family status? is she the only kid of her father ?

Thank you for your advice sir, I will surely consider this.

Originally posted by : Adv. Digvijay R Singh
	you can file petition in family court or civil court in district for restitution of conjugal rights if th wife refuses to return it is good ground for seeking divorce if mutual understandings fail

 

I can definitely get a copy of her certificates, regardign past employement I only have the profile she had shared over Sh@@di.com.

IT return and PAN - This is the reason I had refused to pay loan in personal account, I am very strict when it comes to following the law. I had asked them to give me loan account details so that I can pay and show where my money is going in my tax returns rather than depositing funds in savings account

Job - no she does not have a job, and it seems her father is not financially strong hence the loan payment requests. They have 7 mouths to feed in their house (5 kids including her and 2 parents). Her father's employment/professional claims also were found to be false during the interviews with the police.

 

Originally posted by : arix
	can you prove about her qualification and past employment as engineer? can you show her income tax return ? does she still have the job ? if yes its good.   you don't have an issue, its good for you. court can't pressure you for maintainance. what about her family status? is she the only kid of her father ?

 

You have all the proofs which goes against her. These would be used by your lawyer to protect you. But if the case gores to Court, court will grant her interim Maintainace relief which you will have to pay. Best is to go to mediation or mutually agreed divorce. She does not deserve you

Adv Passy, has given U the correct suggestion,act accordingly and go for mediation and counselling,don't ruin UR lives,think about the future of UR children.

Thank you sir for your reply and taking time to read this post.

I have tried every thing, they just keep asking for money which I don't have. I spent everything on the wedding then rest on the endless shopping thereafter not knowing that despite of everything, refusal to pay a meager 8000 p.m. for student loan will lead to all of this. 

Originally posted by : Advocate Vinod Passy New Delhi
	You have all the proofs which goes against her. These would be used by your lawyer to protect you. But if the case gores to Court, court will grant her interim Maintainace relief which you will have to pay. Best is to go to mediation or mutually agreed divorce. She does not deserve you

 

Thank you for your response, incidentally she has said that a person who can not afford a student loan payment can not afford kids. Hence, she does not want to have my kids. (SMS/WhatsApp and witnesses available)

 

Originally posted by : SAINATH DEVALLA
	Adv Passy, has given U the correct suggestion,act accordingly and go for mediation and counselling,don't ruin UR lives,think about the future of UR children.

 

Originally posted by : A Prabhakar
	I can definitely get a copy of her certificates, regardign past employement I only have the profile she had shared over Sh@@di.com. IT return and PAN - This is the reason I had refused to pay loan in personal account, I am very strict when it comes to following the law. I had asked them to give me loan account details so that I can pay and show where my money is going in my tax returns rather than depositing funds in savings account Job - no she does not have a job, and it seems her father is not financially strong hence the loan payment requests. They have 7 mouths to feed in their house (5 kids including her and 2 parents). Her father's employment/professional claims also were found to be false during the interviews with the police.

 she is in a better place to claim maintainance. no she does not have a job, and it seems her father is not financially strong hence the loan payment requests. They have 7 mouths to feed in their house (5 kids including her and 2 parents). it means that she is the only earning member in her family.

 

it's difficult to avoid maintainance.  all you can do is to show that you are bankrupt too. that you don't have money enough to pay her. this will reduce the amount of maintainance to a great degree.

The fact that she did not mention the same in her court case and her complaint states that since she has been thrown out, hence she seeks maintenance.

1) she was not thrown out - proved in police station and will be proved again

2) I do not understand how it is my responsibility to feed her entire family? If it is mine, then its easy to say that this drama including leaving me and filing false cases of dowry, domestic violence and maintenance is well planned and hence money was motivation behind marriage. 

And if this is what the law supports then the laws need to be changed. In that case, I should probably get ready for a long legal battle; and hence I would like to invite opinions of experts on legal steps I can take starting right away.

 

Please do not find my above message as a bitter reply to the expert opinions being provided here on this website. If this is a long battle, then why sit silent and let her and her family enjoy living on my hard earned money.

Today why women are given more shelter legally than males,the answer is males only.Since times immemmorial women were regarded as B class citizens in the male dominated societies.Males always had an upper hand and women were subjected to all kinds of hardships till the advent of the 19th century.Revolutions gave women a chance to come to the open world to demonstrate their equality with men.But that was only a few percent of them.Thud the laws enacted after independence have given women a sence of respite in the male dominated world.They have been protected to restrict the male dominance.Even now more than 70% of the women in our country are living in the cluthes of the males.hence of late they have been given two dreaded swords called 498A and DV to counter the males.Though more than 70% of those cases may be false,it is left for U to fight the cases with merits from Ur side and prove them false.

Thank you for your reply and taking time out to take a look at this. 

I understand your clear and concise explanation and also the last line which is definitely the thing to take in good stride. I would term your reply as encouraging and yes the mertis/proofs I have are more than sufficient to keep proving her complaints wrong everytime and everywhere. 

Originally posted by : SAINATH DEVALLA
	Today why women are given more shelter legally than males,the answer is males only.Since times immemmorial women were regarded as B class citizens in the male dominated societies.Males always had an upper hand and women were subjected to all kinds of hardships till the advent of the 19th century.Revolutions gave women a chance to come to the open world to demonstrate their equality with men.But that was only a few percent of them.Thud the laws enacted after independence have given women a sence of respite in the male dominated world.They have been protected to restrict the male dominance.Even now more than 70% of the women in our country are living in the cluthes of the males.hence of late they have been given two dreaded swords called 498A and DV to counter the males.Though more than 70% of those cases may be false,it is left for U to fight the cases with merits from Ur side and prove them false.

 

U are welcome and best of luck.

Dear MR.Prabhakar,

You need not to pay anything but your lawyer can save you from all these cases.

you may met me alongwith your whole documents at my office at Chandigarh. You may get appointment at 9814110005.

Regards

Kamal Grover

Advocate

Chandigarh