Hi ChandraSekhar,
Thanks for your advice, really appreciate it. Will take care of that.The amount of pain she and her family have given me is immense.
Mine was a love marriage, I met her in pune, she was not having job, struggling for three years after completion of her graduation. She told me she doesnt have any support from her parents, her brother who was working and earning 30K/pm also doesnt support. She was like alone no one with her. she gave all emotional story. I helped her financially, till she got a job, I got her a job in the company where I was working, though she was not capable of that, than we decided for marriage, for marriage expenses she said her family cant bear, for that even I gave money. we courted about 4 years before our marriage.Did everything for her, and just after 5 months of my marriage I got a proof that she had relationship with someone else, while we were preparing for our marriage. Even than I discussed with her and accepted her and tried to move on. In the mean time I found that she is giving money to her brother and parents with out telling me, when I asked her she told me that she had got lone from her brother for marriage. I asked their parents not to take money from her with out telling me, but no effect, even after I told them they are taking money. Till now they have taken near about 3 lakh. For them money is everything.In the mean time my daughter was born, and they decided a name and applied for birth certificate. I am the Father but I am not even informed about my daughters name. I had a big fight with them over this. After this incident we called her many time to come to our home. she denied. and one day I found that she have left my daughter at her native and have come back to bangalore and joined office, that time my daughter was just 5 months old. Neither her parents, nor did she care to inform me about this. I was shocked thinking what would be my daughter situation I persuaded her a lot, as I didn't want to give my daughter a broken family, After two months of persuation she agreed, than at night 11 pm I booked flight for next morning and went got my daughter back. After coming back also she never changed, continued in the same fashion. I and my parents used to take care of my daughter. Even when she left house second time and took my daughter to her native the air ticket which she had booked for my daughter, she had changed her surname to her surname title even. Since she took my daughter, for near about 4 months I was not even able to look at my daughters pictures. I was very scared to look at my daughters pictures even. It used to give me immense pain.
Everything she had told about her was lie, her birthday, her food habit, her relation. She just used me cheated me to get benifit from me, so after all this it is very hard for me to make any neutral openion about them. They spoiled my life, now ruining my daughter life even. What good words can I use for them tell me.
Not sure how do I and my daughter can get out of this. Your advices are really helpful.
I have not done any single thing wrong but wrong things were done with me. So I have decided to fight against this, fight for my daughters right fight for my right and justice.
May God Give me strength and courage to fight it back.