| Originally posted by : Waheguru | ||
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Dear All Experts, Kindly advice what should we do From last three months there has been no progress and neither my husband nor my in laws contacted me . As my in laws said that they have disowned their son (my husband) and he is not living with them but when we enquired we found that he is living with them and they are lieing. Infact my father called many time to my father-in -law to solve the issue but he didnt picked the call , then i called my husband that your father is no taking the call he said that whatever you guys want to talk , talk to my Mamaji and Uncle (Masad Ji) as they will take the decision as what to do . Then i called his Masad Ji to tell that fix a appointment between my father and my father in law to come to a conclusion. He said that my father in law will not meet and their decision is that they have disowned his son so go and live outside with your husband on a rented house or you give mutual divorse papers in the hands of your husband. Then i called his mamaji , he said that his father in law said that you can only enter their house if i give sorry in writing. My In laws are Blackmailing me write sorry when i am not at fault so that they can be safe in court if i file a case. I request all the experts to advice what to do as My Father-in-law is the biggest culprit , he being the parent should act as a glue to keep our relation . And he is full of attitude and ego which will not come down . If i take the decison to move on rented house with my husband then ,. i will have no security as my husband drinks a lot and comes late at night 2.30 am because of his shift timmings .He actually has got so much leverage by his parents that he is enjoying fully with his bachalor frends for late night party . As per my view i want to continue this marriage as i think Marriage is done only once so kindly suggest what answer should i give to my husband on his above two decision i,e either stay on rented house or write sorry |
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Family life after marriage = Husband + wife
inlaws etc come later. if you keep involving your parents etc into your family life then you will be come OUTLAW
Husband should have confidence in wife and viceversa.
pehle apne baare mein socho, aapka ghar yaani aapka husband aur aap, innmein aapki inlaws relatives etc nahi aate
Forget alll these stories, that did, they did like that this that etc.
all no use.
Go talk to husband, one on one talk. Its your husband and not your parents ka husband that you send them to talk to him.
Waheguru aapke madat kare.
