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sonu (i)     13 June 2013

Help me

Dear experts 

My problem is very dengoures , me got married in 2008 with a local city girl . She is very egoistic . from the very begging of marriage there was dispute in me and her because me a middle class family boy and having a lot of respect regarding parents and family .  I am only son and a married sister in my family.

Also my brother in law marriage arranged in after 2 months of my marriage .

The following ingredient of the case :

 

MY STORY                                                                                           MY BROTHER IN LAW STORY

1.       My wife always want to go her mother home.

2.       She never did respect of my mother and father.

3.       She always showing a egoistic behavior .

4.       She left my home on oct 2008 when she was pregnant

5.       We got a son as on 2009.

6.       When I was asking her to come back home that time she always asked me firstly take separate home from your  parents .

7.       I always denied regarding separate home from parents .

8.       So time has been passed and she stated her mother home and doing job and other study.

9.       A lot of time my father tried to reconcile the matter but they refused every time.

10.   In 2011 my father has been expired

11.   Now time we are separated since 2009 .

 

 

 

1.       My in laws always did misbehave with my brother in law’s wife.

2.       My in laws never respect her parents .

3.       They always brutal behavior with wife of my brother in law

4.       My brother in law also misbehave with her wife.

5.        She also leave of my inlaws home at 2009.

6.       Now in june 2013 from a long gap she already got divorce from my brother in law.

MY SISTER IN LAW STORY

1.       SHE STARTED FLURT WITH a married man and she enjoyed his huge salary.

2.       That married person filed a divorce case against her wife for my sister in law.

 

 

MY FATHER IN LAW STORY

1.       He has been embezzled 25 lack from his department and now suspended from department.

Above is back ground and various character of my inlaws . if you are understand my matter so please tell me what should I do now time divorce or patch up.

Many time I tried to talk my wife but every time she asked now please take a separate home  from my mother .

What should I do in this condition . and also tell me if I filed divorce case so which type of consecution I will face . please help me

 

 



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 4 Replies

Adv Archana Deshmukh (Practicing Advocate)     13 June 2013

If reconciliation is possible then go for reconciliation as it will be better for your kid.  Try reconciliation thru the mediation of some relatives and convince your wife that your mother cannot live alone at this age. If you want divorce you can file for divorce on the ground of desertion since your wife has left you 4 years back or better way go for MCD.

sonu (i)     17 June 2013

mam today i tried to reconsilation of matter but my wife asked me shut up

mam tell me what should i do

Adv Archana Deshmukh (Practicing Advocate)     17 June 2013

You decide what you want and then, decide what to do.  Ask her what she wants and take a final decision. If your wife is not willing to come back then go for divorce.

sonu (i)     17 June 2013

MAM ME WANA RE JOIN BUT SHE AND HER FAMILY ARE NOT GOOD BECAUSE MY FATHER IN LAW SUPENDED FROM JOB NOW TIME MY WIFE IS DOING JOB AND EXPENDED ALL HOUSE EXP. SO MY INLAWS ALWAYS ASKED ADVERSE REGARDING ME.

TELL ME IF I WILL FILE FOR DIVORCE WHAT WILL THE COUNTER BLAST FROM HER SIDE


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