I desperately need help!
I am British girl who got married to a muslim guy in India. I got converted to Islam shortly before we got married. I want to know if an annulment of the marriage is possible. I have absolutely no family or friends in india who can help me. I am now back in the UK and living with my parents and we are no longer together.
I lived in India for around 2 years with him after the marriage. He is extremely abusive and scared me into marrying him. He has a lot of political contacts in the city who he tried to use to scare me. A lot of people are scared of him and he uses his contacts and finances to do whatever he wants.
We met in India whole I was doing voluntary work and got into a relationship where he was very kind and loving. But soon he started pressuring me for marriage (he was 30 and i was 22) and threatening me that he would kill me, himself, or both of us if I left him. I soon developed a severe depression and panic attacks and started seeing a number of different psychiatrists in India.
I felt totally pressurised with the marriage stupidly I went along with it out of fear of what I would do if I refused. He promised me that he would come to my country and meet my family (at this point he had not met any of my family).
The marriage was arranged quickly by his friend who was a lawyer and there were only 2 witnesses present (two men who were his employees) and the marriage ceremony was conducted in Urdu which I don’t understand (I only speak English). After 10 minutes I was married and I knew I had made a mistake.
It is now two years later and none of my family have met him despite many attempts for him to get his visa, he is not interested in meeting my family and I feel I have been tricked into marriage. I now realise what an idiot I have been and I feel I must have been truly mentally sick while we got married-I literally must have been out of my mind. I was not thinking straight. I went to see a lawyer shortly afterwards but he found out I had gone and threatened to kill me if I tried to divorce him.
While we were living together he was physically and mentally abusive. His mother even saw him beating me and kicking me one day but did nothing about it. Thankfully I have escaped and I am now back in my country and I never want to return to India.
Shortly After marriage I also found out the following things about him:
-He was previously married to a Hindu girl (who also got converted). They divorced after a couple of years. I has no idea he was a divorcee. While I started going around with him, he was still married to her!!!!
-He has a number of criminal cases pending against him (mostly for physical violence towards others)
-He has been involved in a number of dodgy business/political dealings in the past which I had no idea about
In addition to this, before I left I gave him around 2 lakh to help a family member. He never returned it to me.
I am least concerned about the money. I do not want any maintenance or alimony, all I want is an annullment. I have researched a bit about how to get an annulment but what I want to know is:
-Is annullment possible in my case? If so, what do I have to do to prove mental insanity/temporary insanity?
-Is his previous marriage and his violent threats enough to show that he forced me into marriage? What evidence will I have to give? None of his friends or family will testify against him, they are all very scared of him, like I said I have zero friends or family in India who will help me. I am totally alone.
-What is the annulment process, ho