Help needed to response to reply filed by wife

Wife filed for divorce. I�m in merchant navy. So I was sailing. My lawyer took time to file vakalat. When I went to court on date, judge sent us to conciliation. Conciliation filed has I asked second chance and she didn�t accept telling mental torture. Now I have reply for petition. In her petition she has said in quarrel I used b*tch and works in brothel. And in text her from ship I have used b*tch and get lost and let�s go apart few times. Due to her non responsive and heat argument has made me say and text those things Will this come in mental torture??? Can I save the marriage. If I accept that it was said in anger and I really want to save marriage... I hav texted her sorry also few times for what I have done. Shall I accept in petition response or should I completely deny those things???