as a wife you have got full rights to stay with your husband where ever he is. get courage gather elder persons who can talk maturely without any anger, fear, ego or frustration; report to local police station at your husband house saying - you need support while entering my "husband" house.
keep a good smart phone with you everytime, make sure it's doing video recording or audio recording of any disturbing incident happening.
you go and live in your husband house they cannot do anything, if they try to do any sort of things report to police immediately or inform the near-by people immediately.
you need to built courage, go and live in his house right now. if you live with your parents then he got the chance of telling court - you volunterly left matrimonial society with him and staying with your parents; which can be a strong point in his divorce case.
Don't worry too much about card bills, once you enter his house make sure all your bills are at your husband address. talk to him to pay minimum amount, i'm sure he will do it.
Ignorance, Innocence and Unawareness are key things for all problems!