Information regarding filing of divorce..

See some good marriage councellor and see if both of you can adjust with each other. If divorce becomes the final decision then, go for mutual consent divorce. Both of you needs to file it. It can be filed at calcutta.

You can file it either in Kolkata or in Allahabad. You can file it anytime if you both agree for it. Anyone of you can file, but it should be a join affidavit signed by both of you. If she does not want to go for divorce, you can file for contested divorce as applicable in Hindu Marriage Act to your case. Whether she needs maintenance or not is decided by court on merits if she is not working at present court may grant maintenance to her.

In addition to what experts above said:

 

1. When can I file for a Divorce or Mutual Seperation.?

contested divorce can be filed one year after marriage, and mutual consent can be filed after one year separation.

 2. Should I file for Mutual seperation, or Divorce, which is easier to conclude and hassel free?

The first one, which is popularly called as Mutual consent is easier one.

3. Where should I file for it, in Kolkata or in Allahabad?

In Kolkata definitely, but if she went to Allahabad for staying permanently then in Allahabad also you can file.

4. Should I file or my Wife should file...?? whatever makes the process fast... Its all the same.

If it is mutual consent, both have to file a single petition.  If it is contested one, the person who wants to take divorce will file it.

5. I am a Graduate, she is Masters..... she used to do job in Delhi MNC.... should she need alimony..?

If she is unemployed at the time of filing the petition, she can claim for the same.

6. What if she dosent want to go for Divorce (she is whimsical at times, one of the reason for our seperation), then what should I do....?

Then follow the advice given by Madam Archana in letter and spirit.  If conciliation is not possible, then you have to file contested divorce case on available grounds, which will take a lot of time and also invite some legal and financial repercussions.

In addition to what experts above said:

 

1. When can I file for a Divorce or Mutual Seperation.?

contested divorce can be filed one year after marriage, and mutual consent can be filed after one year separation.

 2. Should I file for Mutual seperation, or Divorce, which is easier to conclude and hassel free?

The first one, which is popularly called as Mutual consent is easier one.

3. Where should I file for it, in Kolkata or in Allahabad?

In Kolkata definitely, but if she went to Allahabad for staying permanently then in Allahabad also you can file.

4. Should I file or my Wife should file...?? whatever makes the process fast... Its all the same.

If it is mutual consent, both have to file a single petition.  If it is contested one, the person who wants to take divorce will file it.

5. I am a Graduate, she is Masters..... she used to do job in Delhi MNC.... should she need alimony..?

If she is unemployed at the time of filing the petition, she can claim for the same.

6. What if she dosent want to go for Divorce (she is whimsical at times, one of the reason for our seperation), then what should I do....?

Then follow the advice given by Madam Archana in letter and spirit.  If conciliation is not possible, then you have to file contested divorce case on available grounds, which will take a lot of time and also invite some legal and financial repercussions.

This is your side of story but she may have other things to say. If she is aggrived party then if u irritate her then she may file criminal proceedings under various options available. So settle amicably of which onus is on you. While in India social fabric is against women but law is strongly ptotecting them. So dont push her to take shelter under law. 

Thanks everybody for your expert opinion......!!