Enough. If you are hell bent on doing what you want, go ahead and court trouble. See how law comes or does not come to your aid.
Anil Agrawal (Retired) 23 October 2009
Enough. If you are hell bent on doing what you want, go ahead and court trouble. See how law comes or does not come to your aid.
Kamal Grover (Advocate High Court Chandigarh M:09814110005 email:adv.kamal.grover@gmail.com) 24 October 2009
First marriage absence certificate while coming to india and then conversion to HIndu and then marriage is the righ way. Dont worry.
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Anil Agrawal (Retired) 24 October 2009
Normally since my childhood I have heard a Hindu boy or girl converting to Islam to get married. It would be quite revealing and interesting to know instances where a Muslim girl has converted to Hindu religion before marriage. We would be grateful to be enlightened on this subject.
Suchitra. S (Advocate) 24 October 2009
Anil ji, same views here,too. :)
Sundar singh (Asst manager) 24 October 2009
SIr u mean to say that she has to convert to hindu then only i can marry?plz tell the details properly
regards
Sundar singh (Asst manager) 24 October 2009
sir plz suggest me the correct procedure so that i can proceed
Sundar singh (Asst manager) 24 October 2009
referring to anil sir i appreciate ur suggestions.Can u plz tell me the details by which our marriage would be safe.
Suchitra. S (Advocate) 24 October 2009
Sundar ji, I think you can marry her under special marriage Act if she comes from Egypt on visitor visa. After marriage, get the registration certificate. You can marry her in Arya samaj way, wherein she will be converted by them to Hinduism first through a ceremony called 'shuddhi' and then perform marriage. They issue a certificate of marriage there and you can get marriage registration on the basisi of that. The whole issue here is, people of Islam will not accept your marriage as valid, and rare that they give consent to such marriages. We have heard Hindu boy/girl marrying a Muslim viceversa are too rare, I suppose.
Anil Agrawal (Retired) 24 October 2009
To my knowledge, there are extremist elements in Islam who keep silent when a Hindu converts to Islam but the reaction is violent when a Muslim, being it a man or woman, converts to Hindu religion. Therefore, forget about her conversion. The end result may be violent.
If you think that you can sacrifice everything [your religion, face the ridicule of the society, parents, social background etc.], to my mind there are three ways:
1. Ask her whether she is prepared to marry you as it is without conversion. {One towering personality that did it was Justice M. Hidayatullah, former Chief Justice of India. He married a Hindu girl who remained Hindu till the end. During the freedom struggle, Asaf Ali married Aruna. If you go back to history, Akbar married Jodha Bai]. I not quoting Sunil Dutt, Shah Rukh Khan, Hritik Roshan, the modern day icons of young generation.
2. Convert her to Hindu religion and face the wrath of fundamentalists.
3. You convert to Islam. I hope you have not forgotten the Chand Mohammed and Fiza episode just a few months ago. The poor man was sacked as Deputy Chief Minister of Haryana.
Please go ahead and chose any of the above options or other options as advised by others. Or listen to your heart's call.
Anil Agrawal (Retired) 24 October 2009
Let me add this. As far as I know, Islam does not permit conversion. Check it out.
Sundar singh (Asst manager) 24 October 2009
Anil Agrawal (Retired) 24 October 2009
You are a major and can take your own decision. Why are you dithering if you have made up your mind to marry her. Obviously, you can take on the society and your family. You do not need any advice.
Sundar singh (Asst manager) 24 October 2009
Sundar singh (Asst manager) 24 October 2009