As a father of a son, I have seen the misuse of the Section 498 by the bride and her families to the extent that the girl's parents literally start bargaining the cost of their daughter. My son was married in Feb 2009 and the daughter-in-law stayed with her husband hardly for 40 days and with us i.e. with her in-laws for 20 days after which she left for her parents' home on the pretext of preparing for exams and never came back. Then we stayed in Asansol (WB) and the girl also happened from Asansol. The girl's father was well known to me for almost 15 years and despite his extremely poor financial condition I was ready to get my son marrtied to his daughter only because she came from a very educated and cultured family background and money was no criterion for me.
During the said 60-75 days that my daughter-in-law spent with her husband alone in Bhuj (Gujarat) she attempted suicide thrice but everytime people around saved her. Now when I look back it is clear that all the attempts that she made was strategical. She made all attempts in heavily crowded places and in broad day light in full view of the public around.
We have offered to return all their things given by them to their daughter and our family (which are lying with us as it is in brand new and unused condition) and we have also offered to pay them 50% of the amount that they spent on hospitality in the marriage, but unfortunately the parents demand an amount for their daughter who has already been "USED". It is a shame that they think that money can wash away the trace of whatever transpired physically between the couple. Had this been possible there would not have been a term as PROSTITUTE in the first place.
I have already filed for Divorce alone in Asansol Court but it has already been 4 years and the age of my son is also growing with each passing moment.
Can something be done so that I can see my son settled comfortably with another girl and giving the new candidate and her family all the legal protections possible with a promise to legalise the marriage the next day the divorce is granted.
As an agrieved party, can I challenge the one-sided ill-effect of Section 498 in any forum? Can I prove the bad intentions of the girl's family before the court to prove the misuse of the Law?
Please respond and help