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vicky (software eng)     30 March 2014

My ex girlfriend said she filed harassment charges against m

Hi..

My ex girlfriend said she filed harassment charges against me. Initially I was convincing her to marry but she refused and said wait for two years and I have to stay in the same city where she belongs to as she cannot leave her family. But finally when I decided to move on. She started begging me and then when I again refused. She started threatening me and my fiancé with serious consequences. Now she lodged complaint against me. She also messages to most of my friends on Facebook. I never did anything wrong to her. We always met on public places. We never had any physical relationship. I am terrified as I never did anything wrong in my life which takes me to police. She knows my parents home address and using that she filed her case.

I would like to ask you ONE thing.
  ==> If notice comes to my parents address. Will they accept it OR CAN THEY DENY IT, SAYING THAT I DON NOT STAY HERE ANYMORE. What will court do in case they don't have my address.

ACTUALLY I AM WORRIED ABOUT MY PARENTS HEALTH A LOT. COS I AM THE ONE WHO IS SUPPORTING THEM ALTHOUGH I HAVE A YOUNGER BROTHER BUT HE EARNS ENOUGH TO TAKE CARE OF HIMSELF.

SO CAN I FILE A COUNTER CASE OF MENTAL HARASSMENT OF MY PARENTS AND DEFAMING ME OVER FACEBOOK BY SENDING MESSAGES TO HALF OF MY FRIENDS NARRATING THE STORY AND ASKING FOR MY HOME ADDRESS AND PARENTS NUMBER.

Please help. As it is related to two families.

Thank you.



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 3 Replies

sandykrish (Interested in Family LAW)     30 March 2014

Carry on with your life. Nothing to worry collect evidences of her threats and file a NC in police station You are lucky enough to see her true colors, just imagine a life with her post marriage. If she threatens for filing cases let her know that you're ready to face half the battle is won when you are emotionally strong.

fighting back (exec)     30 March 2014

Hi..

My ex girlfriend said she filed harassment charges against me.

 

what are the charges filed against you, please be specific. has an FIR been lodged with the police? have you received any call from the police station?

 

 

Initially I was convincing her to marry but she refused and said wait for two years and I have to stay in the same city where she belongs to as she cannot leave her family. But finally when I decided to move on. She started begging me

 

your girlfriend seems to be a whimsical lady, she was trying to get you to her terms

 

 

and then when I again refused. She started threatening me and my fiancé with serious consequences. Now she lodged complaint against me.

 

 

you again have not mentioned what kind of specific charges are levelled against you, under what sections are you booked. 

 

 

 

 

 

She also messages to most of my friends on Facebook.

 

 

what kind of messages has she sent on facebook? please be specific, are there any kind of deregotry remarks? 

 

 

 

I never did anything wrong to her. We always met on public places. We never had any physical relationship. I am terrified as I never did anything wrong in my life

 

 

if you have not done anything wrong. then why are you worrying? these are just threatening tactic to make you bow down in pressure. keep your calm

 

 

 

 

which takes me to police. She knows my parents home address and using that she filed her case.

 

what kind of case??????? what kind of case??????? please be specific

 

 

I would like to ask you ONE thing.
  ==> If notice comes to my parents address. Will they accept it OR CAN THEY DENY IT, SAYING THAT I DON NOT STAY HERE ANYMORE. What will court do in case they don't have my address.

 

 

 

running away wont do you any good, face the situation, be a man....................

 

 

 

 

 



ACTUALLY I AM WORRIED ABOUT MY PARENTS HEALTH A LOT. COS I AM THE ONE WHO IS SUPPORTING THEM ALTHOUGH I HAVE A YOUNGER BROTHER BUT HE EARNS ENOUGH TO TAKE CARE OF HIMSELF.

 

 

all suffering men here have the same problem....so.l....welcome to the club.........be a dude man.....face the challenge. 

 

 

 

 


SO CAN I FILE A COUNTER CASE OF MENTAL HARASSMENT OF MY PARENTS AND DEFAMING ME OVER FACEBOOK BY SENDING MESSAGES TO HALF OF MY FRIENDS NARRATING THE STORY AND ASKING FOR MY HOME ADDRESS AND PARENTS NUMBER.

Please help. As it is related to two families.

 

 

before filing any counter cases, first think of coming out of the mess......

 

 

 

 



Thank you.

T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate (Advocate)     30 March 2014

I hope that the above friends have expressed their view thoroughly which are some valuable tips for you to follow in your case.


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