Need advice on divorce

Hi,

I am Pawan here.

She has filed. IPC 506,509,(398 or 384 not sure in this both ) and 420 against me.

Now they say that they will solve the matter in lok adalat on 17th march and so I signed on mutual divorce papers for the same. I have been told by the Inspector not to call her or speak to her. Do I need someone elses permission to speak to my wife. Can they charge and other case against me if I speak to her. I want to sort out the differences. What is the best thing that I can do now to get her back. I might sound stupid but I still love her and cant lose her.

What will happen if I dont attend the court for the divorce proceedings after 6 months.

Can they reopen the cases that would be compromised on 17th March 2012.

Can she file 498 A against me as we are not living together now.

Please advice

Once you are going divorce way, she is no longer your wife. (legally may still be, but emotionally should not be)

As she wanted divorce after such ghastly cases, chances are if you don't instigate her, she won't file any cases.

Regards,

Shonee Kapoor

harassed.by.498a@gmail.com

With anonymous name you send your marriage photos to be received by her parents (ensure it reaches only parents not her) so that they know she married you.  She may be playing for the honor of her parents out of fear of divulging information about her marriage with you.  Women are like that generally.  They are prepared to die for the honor of parents but they don't let the truth come out.

So if her parents know that she got married, they will slap her and she will get antagonistic to them.  If you file RCR, they all will unite against you saying you have dragged their family's honor on to streets and she will say to you, this is not the way you convey to them you are married.  Or the possibility is that her parents may not receive summons it may go to her only. 

It is my personal experience.  Even if that honor is based on false prestige, they (women) want to keep it safely, they will die for it also and make men the scapegoats.  Women can bear anything but "bad name" in society, especially in the social circle of her parents.  Oh God!!  Save them.

The moot point here is prooving the marriage that took place in a temple. If there is enough material, say that photos amply proove to the conclusion that there is a marrige, ok fine.  Otherwise, question of divorce does not arise at all. My advise is write a nice letter and await a reply which consolidates her stand in writing, in the sense to know whether she denying the fact of marriage and so on..... After the reply from her you can a take right course of action. That letter should written very nicely carefully narrating recalling  lovely incidents between both of you!!!!!!!!!!!!. Best of luck