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@ samir n ...well said sir!

@ rohit ..u hesitated to tell the real reason that u r not interested in her now ( whatever the reason may be ) ,but while writing ur query u said that the girls side kept u in dark about her skin problem which is not treatable life long (I would say ask the dermat to stop practising if he gives u such stupid excuses ) and so u wanted to break the engagement ..if u can convey such wrong about her in the forum I am sure u will be doing it in the society ..no wonder the girls parents fear this...I think when u marry , physical appearance should not be the most important criteria ..and never talk wrong about anyone's physical appearances coz u never know god might change yours someday..anyways go and talk to the girl ,if u convince her that its not her physical appearance but ur fickle mindless that u don't want to marry her..all the best ..

Before marriage every thing is possible but once you got strangled in unfit marriage then the suffer is more painful....

No one can force you to marry even on the last second of the ritual perfomance U/s-5 of HMA 1955.

If No compatability,No love, No emotional attachment then better to call off the marriage.

Raja..,

His mind... This fellow is a fickle-minded person and is screwing up a LOT of lives by it. I know of someone, 10 years back, who hesitated, even regretted immediately after marriage but went on to have a happy married life despite the initial hesitation. He persisted with the marriage  for the sake of others but ultimately realized that it was a good decision to stick on to his commitment.  It is ALL in the mind. I could understand Rohit's decision to change his mind had he found out that she was having a serious disease or was having a relationship with another man or had a bad temper/nature or her parents were crooks, etc. None of these acceptable excuses exists. It is ONLY the issue of her skin and from what I understand now, it is not that serious issue at all. The poor lady is committed to him.  MIND YOU, HE WAS NOT FORCED INTO THE ENGAGEMENT. THAT WAS HIS VOLUNTARY DECISION. IT WAS ALSO NOT A PRIVATE CEREMONY. IT WAS A BIG EVENT. Her skin cannot be that repulsive. He accepted her then...

Rohit, you better GROW up and look beyond the skin. She will turn out to be a GOOD wife. Had I been her brother, I would have hired someone to crack your skull. May be then you would start looking beyond skin issues. It is childish to seek legal advise in your case. Whether you win in Court or not, you will always have the proverbial sword by your neck... Had I been her brother or father, I would always find a way to change your face... permanently. So, MAN up... accept the woman.  Remember: BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER.  Many women may find you ugly even though you may not have any skin disease. And even though you may be good looking, like someone said above, who knows how you will look in a  few years. Should she then regret marrying you because she still has maintained her figure while you have become a bald fatso?

This is my last post on your case. You do not deserve any sympathy or advise. Go, do the right thing. Rude as it may sound, seek advise elsewhere. May be you should go to Asaram Bapu. He can find you a 16 year old with good skin!

Hi Samir,

I totally agreed with you and Rohit should have not done with engagement.

But fact is he has no interest in her. So I am trying to make the things not further worst to her. After marriage, if he says no love that still makes her life hell.

So better to end the relation now.

Rohit,

As per law, no court can force you to marry. So if u have no interest, end the relation now.

Talk to your parents and relatives and close the things amicably.

Anyway, Samir as you expressed no interest in the thread...Let's us stop advising Rohit.