Need peaceful divorce from wife in a sexless marriage

PEACE OR NO PEACE......depends on your wife and her parents.... You just have to agree to all they say to get a peaceful settlement... and a MCD. 

Getting a divorce in your situation is more of a mental work where your every act should be calculated.....and well planned. 

1. As you say, you both do not fight....sit with her parents / brothers etc and talk to them about the basic problem... If this can be sorted , do that. Go to a marraige counsellor and take expert help. Am sure, things can be rectified and you will have a good life... 

2. If nothing works out and you find getting a divorce, the only option...then start planning. Consult a good seasoned divorce lawyer...not every lawyers can handle this well.  You may first, get your proofs ready, build a strong case, grounds of divorce also is important and you would need evidences along on every thing you say.... Even if you say, you both have'nt had s*x ever, how will you prove this ?? What if she says, you both had it last night only.....then you cannot prove her wrong. So, start collecting evidences on all the trauma you facing because of her.. Collect recordings where she asking for your house as alimony for a MCD, etc etc etc..

3. The above might take a few weeks / months......till then keep trying for MCD. Ask for their demands and keep recording them with spycams. video is always better. Am sure you would have heard of sting operations...do that while talking to your wife and her dad on every important topic. This would help you in future.

My case also is much similar to yours, so..can understand the scene you going through......If you in Delhi, do let me know....can suggest very good divorce lawyer..... 

Go for Mutual Divorce

Collect all her medical prescripttions it would be useful if you decide to go for divorce.never leave even a paper of evidence with her.Collect as much evidence as possible, phone , video recordings.

you can apply for divorce on the grounds that its been not consumated which amounts to cruelty on her part and also citing her mental disorder which prevents both from leading a normal married life.as the experts told earlier collect all evidence that could prove her mental disorder and go for contested divorce

ld. advisor of abv query,
req. u pl. go thrgh query thrghly. it is hvng full of contradiction of own.

Originally posted by : namaste
	ld. advisor of abv query, req. u pl. go thrgh query thrghly. it is hvng full of contradiction of own.

What contradictions?  

hello,
regret to say tht nw a dys nt filing a no. of cases tht is allowed and offering mcd w/o asking a penny is termed as a gr8 obligation to husband and his relatives. in this scenario to except they accept husband term is not like imaging a moon in hand.

Till now my parents were a little skeptical about the divorce and were still trying to push for making things better. But now having seen her behavior, we are now 110% sure we want a divorce. So this is what the situation stands : 

I want a divorce

My parents want us to get seperated so that I can lead a normal life later

My wife wants a divorce

Her parents are forcing her to stay with me in my house though she sleeps in a seperate room (for past 2.5 years) 

She has once said that her father is saying that they will get us jailed. 

This marriage is a dead end. 

These are the option our family lawyer is suggesting: 

My mother (who owns the house we live in) issues an eviction notice to both of us. This will bring her parents forward and they will then probably negotiate. I have no issues in taking an accomodation on rent. Maybe then she will move to her parent's place and then we file the divorce petition. 

I am really really confused.