Hello Sir,
I with my husband has been living at our present location for more than 5 years now. We had some heated argument with our neighbor over parking issue around 4.5 years back and after that there was never a debate over parking and at the same time we have not been on talking terms as well.
Since both of us are working we usually leave by 7:00 a.m in the morning and come by 7:00 p.m in evening and life has been smooth. I have been working from home for the past 3 months because my pregnancy is a high risk pregnancy and travelling is not recommended and also I have had multiple miscarraiges in past. So far my mother in law was staying with me but for the last 1.5 months I'm usually alone at home.
Last month I heard him bad mouthing about us and especially about my mother in law that we throw garbage in his pipe and so his pipe get blocked . He was loud enough to make sure that I hear him well. I did ask him that if he has problem he can himself or send his plumber to our house to which he very rudely replied. Also since he was continously babbling I warned him that I have to call police if he doesn't stop to which his reply was gain "Ja karley jo karna hai mein dekh loonga (Since he is himself a lawyer)" . After a while I just ignored him and he also stopped. I did share the same with my husband.
Last week we were coming from my Godh bharai function and it was around 10:30 p.m in night. Unfortunately someone else parked their car at our location. We checked within our building but could not find the owner. So we honked to get attention of owner of car. Some people did come out including our neighbor but not the owner. There was no other option but to find another place to park after offloading godh bharai stuff at our house. When I passed from nearby our neighbor (because the passage is common) he was again backbiting about us with some other neighbor. I ignored him and went to our house but unfortunately my husband could not. When my husband asked what is his problem and why is he continously babbling and staring at us his reply was "abbey ja" and then argument started. It picked up further heat when he used absolutely abusive language saying " Kuttey terey kutiya ke pehley bhi bachey kharab huee hain aur aagey bhi nahin hoongey" . My husband also responded in anguish ki "pagal bachey paida karney se tou bacchey na hoo" After a while our other neighbors intervened to end this and we went to our house. After us however our neighbor's fight started with someone else whom we didn't know but they certainly lived in our block. We were way too tired and it was very dissapointing and stressing for me that my godh bharai ended in such a bizarre way on top of it hearing such abusive words for our unborn child. AS if this was not enough, our neighbor filed a complaint against us that were honking, abused them, locked them in their house and then my husband tried to attack our neighbor's wife with a strolley , when he was actually offloading the godh bharai stuff. They also falsely claimed that I (who is now entering my 8th month) attacked his wife and that 2 other men have to drag me away from her when the fact was all the time I was standing near my house due to the fear that a single push from them could have caused a havoc in our life. So the ordeal finally ended by spending 2 hours in police station explaining them the entire situation and returning home at around 2:00 a.m.
I have not been able to sleep well and fear that he might again instigate and again lodge a false complain. Please someone please help us and what is the necessary action we can take against him and his wife apart from avoiding him. He himself is a lawyer and his wife is teacher and claims themselves to be senior citizens.
Eagerly awaiting for some valuable advice.
Thanks in advance!!
