Hi experts,
Me a physically challenged person. My marriage is arranged & 20 month older. My wife hardly live with me for 2 months & she always refused for s*x & we never s*x. After marriage, mostly she lived at her maternal house by showing cause of her bad health. Her immunity level is low. She never discussed about the problem before marriage. According to her behaviour, she dont want to leave with me & she only looking to get share in my property. She is able to earn & live her life independently. From last 12 month, we dont have any communication.
Me sent her notice (similar to divorce notice) on her maternal house address through a lawyer. The lawyer written to her that she have to return my home within 15 / 30 days otherwise we will take action against her. Approx after 50 days & before few days were left for Court's May month vaccation, she communicated with my lawyer through a phone call, she admitted that she received the notice just now & she shown cause of she was on outing thats why she being late to reply. She also requested him that she want to live with me & she want to call a meeting for it.
She never call meeting after that maybe she was thinking, during Court's May month vaccation, we will offer her money & we will close the matter here, thats why she talk to my lawyer just few days before of court May month vaccation but we didnt offer her money & nothing. She is really unresponsive about all the matter. She showing no interest in all the legal activities. Actually in last 18 months, 3 - 5 times she make fake promises for meeting & she failed each time. Each time she resident in my home for few days (3 - 7 days) to avoid the meeting & again she was returning to home by showing any causes. She always scared for arrange a meeting. My case side is strong by my point of view. There are many things are against her. Few times she went to maternal house against of my family permission too even after long time already she resident there too.
Now me want to know, can we publish divorce notice directly in local news paper & can take divorce successfully. Offcourse only that notice is not everything but what if me do it...
My friend circle also suggested me for live in relationship (for no time consuming purpose), as per their knowledge it will nomore affect my case & also me read in a updated family law book that if partner doesnt response on first divorce notice then the party (who filed case) is free to get married without any problem.
Need your valuable reply on above situation. Which way is best for the situation. Which next step should I take... My age is 30+ & because of my disability, my family worries about my future life. Day by day my mother unable to maintain housework.
Thank you.
Manoj
