Im a Bangladeshi National, and i met and married my husband who is and Indian National abroad. The civil marriage was conducted in Sri Lanka and it was a neutral ground for the union. Since we both worked and resided in the Middle East, due to professional and personal pressures our marriage turned sour.
After many months and years of fights and reconciliations. We have our only child who is now 6 years old. When he was born, as it was mutually decided by us since neither of us changed our nationalities or religions. We made the child Indian. I signed a sworn affidavit in the Dubai Indian Embassy that my son would be Indian and would bear no other nationality pertaining to my origin.
His family including himself forced me to leave my job and be a full time mother in the hopes of making our marriage work.
As things would have it, we are now separated and he abandoned us in Dubai, with me and the child not having a job, and visa. He didnt take the child to India then as he himself had no clue what he was to do. I managed to get a job, sponsor not only myself but my son as well and barely make ends meet with two jobs. My only support is my mother, whom i stay with and the child is comfortable with his maternal grandmother.
It has been 2 years since this event had happened and my husband had neither supported financially nor emotionally. He had opportunities to come back for his son but always made excuses.
I have filed a divorce case in Srilanka to dissolve the marriage and to decide on custodial rights. However since we are merely separated and awaiting a final divorce i had out of good will and gesture visited my husband in a neutral place within India (not his permanent home address) with our son. He wanted to bond with his son thus i trusted his judgement. However he lied to me and my sponsors in India and ran with the child without our consent to his home address. He switched his mobile off for 6 days, by that time i had to travel back (as i work and was on leave). He promised to return the child once the summer vacations were done.
However now he is making demands that i leave my family, my jobs, everything and come to India and if i dont comply he will not return the child. He has made it clear he doesnt want me in his life. However i fail to see his logic in me settling in India as:
1. Im a foreigner, thus on visa and not allowed to work
2. Am settled with the child in Dubai
3. He has no intentions of remaining married to me.
Please bear in mind that this man has no regard for my sons life, education or future, yet unlike many women I indulged him only for the sake that my son loves his Papa and that he is my sons father.
My question is: Is there any provision in the Indian Law which can help a bangladeshi mother get her Indian child back and not be at the mercies of a raving Indian lunatic father?
FYI: It has been 12 days since this incident has happened and i left from India as i was told there is nothing i can do, but pray that he returns the child. I refuse to believe that!
Please Advise....