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Murli (Technical Engineer)     10 June 2014

Safeguard from domestic violence

Dear Lawyers,

I would like to seek help about matter related to divorce. Here is a short story of my married life.

It has been more than 5 years since we are married. It was arranged marriage and we started liking each other. As days passed by, I started feeling annoyed/frustrated with her behavior in public - as in she talks loudly, shouts, insults in front of everyone by talking nonsense etc.. Days passed by and I tried to tell her about my dislikes in my own way but could not see a change in her. Now all those incidents in fact many such insults in front of so many people has piled up and lead to hatred towards her. It has been more than 9 months that i have spoken to her though we live in the same house.

She is not at all ready to leave me instead threatens that she will commit suicide and stuff. I am afraid that she will consult police station for any assistance. Honestly I have never abused her till date in front of anyone which can be verified with neighbors, their family members, my family members and office colleagues as well.

Today at any cost I do not want to live with her anymore. It is not that I have anyone else in my life, but i am tired with my life to such an extent that i felt like committing suicide many a times but realized what for and whom for should i spoil my life.

I am afraid of my health and frightened if she is going to poison me or make me impotent by some sought of medicines. Life looks very miserable. I can understand from her point of view as well that she is not willing to leave me at all. But to me i can no more tolerate her. Whatever little i have earned i am ready to give her away without any hesitation. But she is unwilling to leave me :/

Can anyone of you help me by suggesting as to how do i safeguard myself from any offense first and then how can i get separated from her.

Kindly help me before my health deteriorates any further.



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satish bhaskar (Litigant)     10 June 2014

If things seem bad, then : Try to record possible her behavior as evidence of cruelty will be needed if you file divorce. Maintain no joint accounts. Put money, valuables in accounts/locker etc. which she doesn't know about, away from her knowledge and reach. Safeguard your property etc. before she complains about you. Above all keep calm, take care of health through activity like long walks regularly or yoga etc.


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