Hi Me and my wife are going through a bitter phase in the relationship and despite trying all options I am convinced we need a divorce. She had multiple times showed the intention for divorce but never acted on it , I was the only one taking the relationship further , but now even I am convinced divorce is the option remaining. I conveyed this to my wife and obviously she is angry. I am worried if she might file false 498a (dowry case against me and parents) I want to know if I can start the process from my end by sending a notice or how to proceed further. Also I am in USA right now and she is in India , where should we ideally file for divorce as I am an NRI. If we file in India do I have to come in-person or I can use Power of Attorney? If she is not showing any intentions to file for mutual divorce and wants to drag this thing. What are the measures I can take to proceed further and also she is hell bent on coming to USA and I can't and don't want to stop her.She can stay here legally as my dependent and will want to continue living in USA as she likes here and hence not going to take any action for divorce. How can I safeguard myself from this situation? I can't revoke her VISA as that is her to keep.
Thanks