1. First time, the lady reported the matter to National Commission for Women on 12th November, 2009 [have copy of written application]
Complaint in the NCW has nothing to do with any case filed in the Court, whether DV or 498A.
In my case also a complaint was filed in the State Commission for women. We were called. I Went and presented my case, and the chairman was convinced and later dismissed her complaint.
NCW works, only before the matter goes to the court. They try to prevent the matter from going to the court, because once the matter goes to court, there is hardly any possibility for a reconcillation.
You can keep the copy of the complaint with you, but it will be of no use in the court.
2. Police complaint on 17 December 2009 after receiving threats from husband, that time counselling in NCW was on. after this compalint the lady left her matrimonial home.
I dont think the police made an FIR out of the complaint. Did they?
3. She given the case to advocate in Mid November 2010, case was filed on December 1, 2010 and date of admission was given for 06th December 2010.
4. First hearing date was 16/03/2011
5. DIR was filed by PO in June or July 2011.
The Protection officers report can come later. Dont worry. Try to find our the contradiction in the report to PO and the main complaint.
Next, as I have replied in my previous reply, you have to reply to her complaint.
The court will hear both sides and order an interim maintenance. Interim maintenance application is section 23 of the act. After the judgement, I would suggest you appeal u.s 29 of the act in the sessions court and also pray for staying the case.
It properly presented, the case will be stayed.
My appeal u.s 29 of the act is pending in the sessions court for the last 1 year and 4 months..and the case in the lower court has been stayed.
Best of Luck
Vikram