Dear roma jii,
Ab main aapko kaise samjhaun ki mera dimag bilkul barabar hai,actually aap in figure ko nai samajh pa rahi,dara sal baat aisi hai ki bharat mein 2% mahilaein 1.2 arabon me sahi payi jaati hain jo 498a ka mukadma jake karti hai aur haan chod nai deti barabar ladti hain aur aapne husband ko saja dilati hai.
Pad afshosh is baat ka hai roma ji ki aap upar nimnlikhit aksharon aur ganiton ko samjh nai pa rahi.Khai chodiye main aapko takleef nai dunga un ganayon ko samjhane k liye. hum ab aate hai mardhan pad-------jii haan aapne bilkul sahi kaha mardhan chahiye toh seva karo,patni ki,sas ki ,sasur ki aur aapne baachon ki.
Agar hum shastra utha ke dekheinge toh aaj jo bhi mahilaein bhar me jake kaam kar rahi hai wo patibrata ke khilaf hai,patni ka dharam aapne pati,aapne bacchon aur pati ke maa baap ki seva ke liye aarpit hota hai. Pad chodiye ab kaun in sab baaton ko kyonki hum ab 2013 me hai na ki satyug "Ram jii ke yug me hai" jahan sita jaisi patni aapne pavitrta ko sabit karne k liye aagni me sama gayi thi.Kyonki yeh sita jii ka prem tha aapne pati/bhagwan ram k liye.
Aapke puche gaye sawaoln me yeh spast ho gaya ki agar sita jii aaj hoti toh woh awashya aapne pati Ram jii pe 498a ,406,506,125crpc,DVA2005 lagati kyonki Ram jii ne sita jii ko aapmanit kiya tha unke desertion ko leke. Iam sure unke beech me divorce jarur ho jata kyonki desertion 2 saal se jyada ka tha according to HMA 1955.
Khair ab chodiye main patnivrata ki baat karta hun---------aaj ke husband patni se waisa soch nai rakh sakte kyonki aaj ki patni shola aur shabnam hai. Agar aap unhe ghar ki paramparon ko shikhaoge toh wo boleingi ki meri aajadi cheen rahe ho,agar unhe aap bataoge ki mujhe paise kamane k liye office me samay toh dena padega toh usmme unki tauhin hoti hai ki pati smay nai deta. Agar sas sasur aapni 1960 ke udharan aur expectations rakhte hai toh wo budhe ho gaye hai they are mad,unko aapne bete se dur karo...........madam jii galti marriage karne me nai hai,marriage karne ke baad nibhane me hai aur wo puri parampara k saath,kyonki marriage is a social activity you can't hide yourself and become aloof.
Ab marddhan pe fir se aate hai-----aurat aapna ghar chod ke pati ke ghar aati hai, aurat ki jo sampati hai wo ek tarah se unhe dowary aur gifts ,jewellery ke roop me mil jaatein hain.Aur yeh Jo dowary ka kanoon banaya hai unhone ne bhi aapne beti ya beta k liye jaroor kiya hoga.So,shaadi tutne ke baad yeh dowry k liye 498a kyon,yaar aapko nai rehna kisi k saath toh mat raho magar jhute cases kyon karte ho,agar aapka jo bhi dowry hai,jewellery hai,saman hai sab aapke husband dene k liye tayar hai toh lo aur jao kahe ko jhute case karke ab tum extortion/dowry lene ka kaam kar rahi ho.
Dekhiye roma jii,Jo cruel hota hai wo marte dum tak cruel hota hai-----agar aap sochogi ki bhagwan budh fir se janam le aur in saare aatyachari husbandon ko ek daku se manush bana de toh ashambhav hai.Aur kisi court ya law me itni takat nai hai ki kisi ko saza dilake aap use ek honahar aadmi bana sakti ho.
So,why to sar phodna aapne hi dukhad marriage me jahan kuch nai rakha.
Samasyaein sari jagah hai aur unka hal bhi magar unka hal kam hi jagah ho pata hai....!
The above post is not made for hurting any emotions or anyone feelings,it's just a social issue and merely a view
Thanks & regards,
A sufferer......
