I need your suggestions and thoughts, please advice me.
I and my girlfriend KEERTHI ARCHANA were in love since 2 years, we have married on FEB 7th 2013 without informing to our parents, our family situations were not good. In both side sister came for pregnancy. My girlfriend dad was searching a bride for her and she don’t want that to be happened, she requested me to marry her so that she can fight/tell her dad I love some one and married him already. I have married her in GANESH TEMPLE in front of friends and colleges. We both are Hindus, we have planned to do marriage register on Monday i.e. FEB 10th (No Marriage Registration). As our family situations are not good so planned to tell to our parents after completion of 4th semester (i.e. P.G. –> M.Sc ) and went back to our individual homes as usual.
The next day FEB 8th we were completely on phone talking to each other as wife and husband i.e. “You are my husband don’t forget this etc….” in positive sense.
On FEB 9th I didn’t get any call so I called on her mobile it was switched off, I called to their landline her mom lifted the call and scolded me like “If you call one more time I’ll cut down your leg’s etc.”. I went to their home alone @1.00 P.M. and spoke to their family members. Initially they said you did blackmail to my daughter, she don’t any thing and you did all these fake marriage etc. I said your daughter forced me to marry her, I requested her to talk with her parents first but she said my parents will do house arrest which I don’t want.
They call Archana in front of me and asked, what do you say now?
She said “I don’t want you!!!”, I was silent and listening to them I thought might be family pressure so she is telling like this, this is what I have understand from her face. Her family members (i.e. mom, dad and 3 sisters) said forget everything what ever happened and move on with your life and she will also. I said if Archana come to me or calls me then you people should not come in between us. They said for sure she will not come and we will take care, please give all photos or videos you have and delete all the copies.
After 3 days I gave a 50 photo copies to her dad. I was expecting that she is waiting/talking like this because her mom and dad are suffering with diabetes and pregnant sister is in 8th month.
She came to college for 6days only to write exams with her parents and had no chance to talk with her. I just used to see her, she used to see my face that’s it, no +ve or –ve expressions.
After completion on my exams, i.e. April ending I spoke to her dad, I love her so much, I’m a software professional what’s wrong if you marry her with me. He said your cast is different and our cast is different, I can’t do this because I have to live in the society and please forget every thing and move on with your new life. I said I can’t live without her please understand me. He said if you don’t stop/drop this matter here my family will file a PS complaint or I will suicide writing a letter on your name.
It’s almost 4 months, no call, no message, no response from her. I think she has negative opinion on me. Her family did not beat her once for this but mentally changed her. Recently I got some news from mediators that she is getting married to NRI. Recently in June I told my family members, they are saying leave it.
I personally feel I want her back in my life, I don’t know what happened why she is doing like this.
1) What should I do now?
2) Shell I fight in court to get back my wife in my life?
Is it through Restitution of Conjugal Rights or any other section?
I have only these Proofs of marriage: 60 Photos, 30 minutes videos and small voice recording data ( + 4 friends and pandith/priest ).
Can I get BSNL voice call recording/data? If yes how?
What is the probability of winning this case?
3) I think she will listen to her parents only and can put any reverse case on me. What all the sections she can put case on me?
Think as if she is your client. Can I fight back and win these cases?
4) If I give in news paper/media this along with marriage photographs?
Can they put any case on me for this? If yes which section?
Appreciate your suggestions and advice :)
Thank you.
Mukesh Singh.
