Hello Experts,
My maariage was arranged at Apr-2015.We have five members in my family including my wife.I am a software engineer and my wife is a housewife.Before my marriage I have shared my wife that I have a joint fammily and we (my father,.other and an younger brother) are satteled in city.She had told me that she will manage familly.
We have maide for house work.After 7 days of marriage her mother father came to take her for one month as social rule.After this time I get her back.
After comming back my wife has started to create the meaningless disputes in family without telling someone even me that what is the reason and compalins her mother father for all the things .I analayse that my wife assumes wrong meanings of talk of my familly even of mine also.I dont know she did this in presense of mind or in any planning.
We have a maid to all house work excluding the food cooking. My wife cook food for my familly but excluding this task she dont care my fammily like to ask food my parents timly.Once my maid had some physical problem so applied for leave for one week.
During this week my wife had to do the house work.During this week she did meaning less things but I had asked my mother that no body will object her yet for this month.I thought She needs some time to adjust herself in my familly and after some time she will understand that she is doing wrong.
After marriage she alway threaten me that she will complain her mother for meaningless things for which she should manage.
And now withing 7 days of keeping the house work first time she called her fammily and they came at my house and asked us why you give the tension to our dauther.My mother in law is short temper and has saperated her newly marriad son and his wife within 3 months of marriage.And now she wants like this in my family so my mother in law enforcing my wife to create some major issues so that they could demands to saperate me and my wife from my family.
My wife has already threaten me for fake police case indirectly so many time.She did not respact my mother and father. Sometimes in anger she did not respact me also.She always argued me and my mother for her things.She did all the things as she wants but in fammily boundary.But one day she had shouted me and call all my neighbours and threaten me for fake things.
After this I forcelly said her fammily to take her for their house.Now she is staying with her family from last month.During this month her father and my wife tries to blame me and my fammily upon all thing whice my wife had lied them.
During these time I have tried to make understand her but she shouting me over phone whenever we talk and blaming my mother for fake things.I am not favouring my mother yet I analyse it that my wife speaks lie and changes her statement frequently.
Now she had given me a threaten sms "You see what will happened with you and your familly within four days". And her fammily also told me and my father to come their house with some people (I think they wants panchayat).
My wife has already told me that she has not any problem with me but she has problem with my mother and she wants to live saperate with me.I had tried to explian her that this is wrong and I could not do this because I have some responsibility for my familly.And she has told me that you manage but I want saperation.Now she always threaten me for fake case.
What should I do.I dont want to give any leagal trouble to my familly and do not wants to stay more with my wife because during this 1 month she did not realize her mistakes and she speaks lie so many time with me even for our mutual facts which were held between me and my wife.She does not care for anything and even she has started to allegate me that I have extra marital affair.
Please help I am feeling that once she will come back in my familly she will create any serious fake allegation to my familly for any leagal step.
Thank You.
