We filled for MCD in Feb 2013. We had our 2nd Motion in August this year. However during the 2nd motion, my wife said that she is not sure about divorce and want to take more time to think about it. I said that I am very clear on getting it but the judge told that consensus of both is required and gave a next date which is a month later for her to think about it.
My question is
1) What could I do in case of these harressment techniques adopted by her. could she still file DV or any other case agaist me to harress further. Although in the agreement for MCD we have mentioned that we wont file any such case. We have been living seperately for more than 18 months now.
2) What would happen if she refuses again in the next motion. Would the judge quash the appeal since the other party is not ready? What options do I have in that case.
3) I have given her half of the permanent alimony. The other half was due after the divorce. Could I ask it back?
Any guidance would be helpful.