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Anonymous
(Querist) 31 January 2011
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Dear Expert,
I was married on Jan 2009 after few months my wife creating problem because of her ego and she is not trust anyone and very shaaki type of girl. we have a lot of misunderstanding and a lot of day to day issues. I try a lot but she not ready for anything.
My in-law also help less cos they told me we can’t do any thing because she not listening to any body not even her mother.
Because of her my life is hell and she is not ready to stay with me and not give me divorce at any cost. She flirt also with other guys. I have seen that on her mail id now she deletes all that mail also.
She is working and told me I will not give you divorce at any cost and her mother father totally help less she is out of control now. She fights with her mother also and with my old parents also.
Now in this situation what should I do how can I get the divorce because she give me threat I will stuck you and your parents false case like dowry DV 498a and even torture and for that she want to die this kind of false case. She threat a lot.
Please advice how I come out this situation and get the divorce so that I can live my life peacefully
One other question any video recording by detective which proves she has relation worth other guys it is valid in court. ( but we can’t prove even she has physical relations also cos I know she has but we can’t prove that because this is something nobody do openly )
Please urgent advice want to live peacefully and need divorce this kind of women. She threaten and not ready for divorce at any cost and i don’t want to spoil my life with this women.
Regards
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 31 January 2011
You can always file a suit for divorce and if you could establish your alleations with adequate proof then you may get divorce as wll. But yes, possibility of DV case and case u/s 498a, 406 is always a probability for which you have to remain prepared.