Anonymous
13 August 2018 at 06:13
Hello Sir, I'm the groom.
Few months back my parents found a bride in Matrimony portal on January 2018 [resident of Bangalore, & origin is Tamil].
Our engagement happened on April 2018. [We wanted a family girl who doesn't work. Luckily she was 1 year free after completing her graduation and was jobless.]
Some background History :
From the beginning [till engagement] the father of the bride was not actively speaking with my parents or me.
Only her mother used to interact. She speaks to me over the phone often [Takes more time than Bride over phone].
I respect my elders, so I can't cut the call abruptly, so , I kept listening to all her conversations.
But, She always speaks bad about her Husband's family. How they tortured her. How they tried to stop her marriage.
She always praises about erself on how as a single woman she brought up her daughter.
One fine day before engagement the below conversation happened :
Bride's Mom : I want my daughter to work. She doesn't have value for work & money.
Me : We wanted a girl who doesn't work and take care of family very well.
Bride's Mom : Yes. I know. But, she should understand the importance of money and how difficult it is outside.
Also, she wants to clear her education loan by herself.
Me : She graduated a year back. Why she hasn't found a job all these time.
Bride's Mom : According to her horoscope her time is not good. Now she has good time to get even a stable Govt. Jobs as well.
Me : But Aunty, I don't want my wife to work. Are you asking her to work for educational loan alone ? If so i can take care of the loan.
Bride's Mom : No no. It will be very bad for me to put the loan on groom, I will never do that. I asked you only for her to realize the importance of money.
And the hardships we face to earn it. If you are not happy let's leave this topic.
After Engagement [Father started to get along well after engagement] :
My Fiance suddenly calls me and say's, I need to work. I got a notice. To pay educational loan.
I asked, we agreed that you won't work right ? Why suddenly you are changing the plan ?
She said, even you agreed to pay the educational loan.
I was confused. I'm in middle of office work and she was very nervous.
I don't remember signing a stamp paper to anyone that I'll bear it.
Still, I'm kind hearted. I asked her to calm down and said, "Please ask you parents to pay minimum emi at least. After marriage I'll pay the balance.
I never refused. I just told, I can't give you any money before marriage. My parents won't be happy. After , marriage I'll pay it.
She was blackmailing, If you trust me then pay now. Else police will catch me. I need to goto work.
I directly told, Inform my parents about this.
After a while, her father called me. Asking that i only agreed to pay the loan. And conversation went on This way.
From this day my life is messed up. I was called as cheater and faker for not paying the loan. They have our gold ornaments worth 1.5 Lakhs [that we gave for engagement] and still call me as cheater.
From that date till now lot's of cheap things they started to do. Lot's of meaningless arguments. I can't resist. They try to pull my mount. They Irritate me during sleep.
I NEED AN EXPERT ADVISE HERE.
I HAVE MANY MORE DATA TO ADD BUT THE DATA IS SOO HUGE THAT ILL END UP WRITTING A LITTLE BOOK IN THIS PORTAL
Please help me in correct direction. What they can do next. How I can protect myself from these kind of scams.
Anonymous
12 August 2018 at 23:41
We are a Limited company from West Bengal, We have 3 promoting Director with share and 4 key employee cum promoting shareholder (5 Lac authorized capital).
Now 1 key employee cum promoting shareholder has placed his resignation, as per our terms he has to serve 6 months notice period, at the end of notice period we will give him a Provisional release letter and release him from day to day activity. And the final release letter we will provide after the Roc shows new name after his share transfer.
In the Provisional release letter, we include some condition that is "Being a key employee cum promoting shareholder and a key board member of the company you have lots responsibility, we are releasing you from day to day activity but you need to report if any issue arises and for your share transfer to another person and to reflect that change in ROC will take 1 year max, upon those confirmations we will give you final release letter"
Patelparitosh Naginbhai
12 August 2018 at 15:49
Respected sir , my sister maulika naginbhai Patel is PhD in Gujarati subject from m s university at baroda , .. she is applied for the assistance professor at P N DOSHI WOMEN COLLAGE AT GHATCOPPER MUMBAI from news paper advertisement . She is selected after giving interew in on DOSHI collage . & Appointment letter is given as per UGC sallery mainsion ,& joining date & maulika is joining at that date , after that 3 month is going but salary is not given by collage , collage principal saying that no confirmation is given by university , at time of notbandhi collage principal say take some money in old currency , maulika is confusing that matter , but she is handicap & poor , salary is not started so she take the old currency notes , after one year complete but collage is not starting salary , &. Say to maulika resigned is given to this post , but maulika is not given resins ,. After 16 month collage termination latter & say not comming in college campus , & salary is not given from our collage , because university is not appointment to you because Gujarati subject students is not take addmition, in our collage .
Sir give the suggestion regarding salary & service issues
malaika
12 August 2018 at 13:32
sir/Madam,
where can i register a contract agreement in Delhi, the value of the work of constructing toilets is 6 lakhs, what is the stamp duty payable and where can i get theses stamps from?
chandanchakraborty
12 August 2018 at 13:16
What is the validity period of searching report for creating equitable mortgage?
ashok
12 August 2018 at 11:26
in a matter before the court, the respondent to get a favourable order placed some document along with written statement as such the case was dismissed but later on when an application was moved by petitioner showing fakeness of document the court recalled its order and in due course held the respondent guilty..
(quantum of punishment is yet pending)
My query, Respected Lawyers, is whether the court would also "consider" punish on account of furnishing wrong document or it is necessary for petitioner to move separate application under crpc 340 later ?
Edward Fernandes
12 August 2018 at 11:00
Recovery CCA of Jan 1998. Due to serious sickness & non payment of 50% lawyer fees, the lawyer only filed Vakilnama & no reply to contest the case since 1st day. No one appeared for me from 1998. In September,2017 order was passed "Case Disposed-u contested"
Please help. This order has STAY ORDER for Non operation of A/c wherein even my PF & Gratuity checks are deposited by Bank & I don't have ex�ess.
Thanks
Edward Fernandes
Anonymous
12 August 2018 at 10:08
Respected sir/madam,
I have completed my MS general surgery from pt jnmmc Raipur and I am bonded to work for 2 years in rural areas.. if I get selected for higher studies (super specialization) in middle of these two years, will I be allowed to persue higher studies and then come back and serve remaining bond?
Stephen
12 August 2018 at 09:38
Question on use of ORDER 598/1998 as Evidence
Dear Experts,
I am standing as POA on behalf of my friend- Plaintiff who got cheated of plot. We have filed OS for money recovery and cancellation of sale deed. While the case has progressed to the extent of defendant advo cross examination of myself… while the case is posted for defendants to produce any evidences. Meanwhile I have learnt the layout which was formed in 1992 and all plots sold by 1994 itself, whereas the plot which was cheated to my friend was sold in 2013 and infact the original developer filed a declaration suit in 1998 and judgement given in favour in 2010. This ORDER OS/598/1998 judgment photo copy I could get it by Gods providence. Therefore can we use these and other WhatApp message during when the case will be posted for defendants cross examination. OR do we need to bring to courts notice through any formal process. Finally as this case involves recovery of 41 lakhs therefore would court help us in recovering money by asking defendants to produce list of other property he owns and the same to be attached to this case as collateral security.
Many thanks
Stephen
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