Can i go for divorce
Balu
(Querist) 05 December 2009
This query is : Resolved
Sir,
For the past 3 yers since my marriage my wife fights with me in every moment.
Reason for her fights are,
1.Dont give mony to your parents.
2.She dislike joint family.
3.Always your are giving money to your sister.
4.She never allows my parents,my sister to come to my house when we are in separate house.
5.She doesn't love me but by money.
6.She always things only money all ohers are secondary.
7.She always told me that do what i say or otherwise go for divorce.
The list is too long.
What can i do? please advice.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 05 December 2009
If she desires divorce as told by you in serial no. 7 then oblige her and get rid from her. Mutual divorce petition can be filed and can be got a decree of divorce and this shall be the best solution in the light of facts given by you.
N RAMESH.
(Expert) 05 December 2009
I agree with the best solution.
Adinath@Avinash Patil
(Expert) 05 December 2009
BALU,
ACCORDING TO REASONS SUBMITTED BY YOU I THINK THEASE REASONS ARE ONE SIDED. IN MY OPINION BEFORE FILING DIVORCE PETITION YOU DISCUSS YOUR PROBLEMS WITH YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS AND TRY TO SETTLE MATTER MUTUALY.IF MATTER IS NOT SETTLED THEN IT IS BETTER TO FILE MUTUAL CONSET DIVORCE PETITION .
Sachin Bhatia
(Expert) 05 December 2009
In my opinion firstly you discuss the problem with the elders of the family and try to resolve the matter, if after this you still thinks that things are not going your way then better to file petition for mutal divorce.
N.K.Assumi
(Expert) 06 December 2009
I agree with Adinath's suggestions.Before snapping your nupital ties try to patch it up all these differences first.
ROHITASHVA PURI
(Expert) 06 December 2009
I AGREE WITH MR SAWANT OPINION .
ITS BETTER FOR BOTH OF YOU
bhupender sharma
(Expert) 06 December 2009
It would be better for u to go for divorce, but as per ur item 6 she likes only money and rest of the things appears to be secondary in the sense she is only threatening to seek divorce not in actual. U may have been much sentimental to your family then your wife that's why she is blackmailing your emotions. It would be better for u get her under stand that i have also obligation towards my family and I shall take care of all your needs as possible otherwise only options remains to be get divorced mutually.
Balu
(Querist) 06 December 2009
Sir/Madam,
Thank you very much for everyone.
Thanks for your valuable opinions.
1.She ask me to handover my salary with cover.
2.She spends money not for what we need but maintain status.
3.My FIL also threaten me as "i know law,i will spoil you and your family".
4.My wife also threaten me as " I am ready for divorce but my father and brother will torture you".
5.My family members are not happy with my wife.
6.What can i do when her parents are refused to mutual consent?
7.My wife has two sisters one of them living with my FIL custody but in a separate house there is no contact with her husbands family since her marriage,her husband is working in BSF.
8.And another one sister also separated her husband from his family.
9.Now my wife also playing the same game with me.
10.My wife and her sisters are used her husbands for name sake,and they are all like to dominate the family.
These are some more details for please give me solution.
Thanks for all.
