Harrasment by wife and her parents
Aditya Boddupalli
(Querist) 30 June 2009
This query is : Resolved
Hi. I had been married in Aug, 2008 to a middle class girl. At the time of marriage her dad told me that she is very good at house keeping, cooking and in speaking in English. But, later when I had to move to Goa for job, I realized that she doesn't even know how to cook rice and clean the house.
From then onwards, she and her parents are making repeated allegations that I am having an extra-marital affair with a servant - which is completely false. They are even insulting my parents and friends. She went back to her maternal home 2 weeks back. Last week when I visited her house to see her, her dad told me that if I need to see my wife, I need to clarify why my mother is calling their relatives and enquiring about my wife's character - which is a lie.
Now, he is threatening me in ugly language to clarify the comments made by my parents. Of which, none are true.
After moving to Goa, my wife repeatedly accused me of marrying without her consent. She called her parents and lied them that I am beating and torturing her. She herself wrote letter to me stating that she wants to leave and doesn’t want to re-unite. And now, after she went to her parental home, she is spreading all the lie stories again.
Please tell me what to do.
Kiran Kumar
(Expert) 30 June 2009
better option is to amicably settle the matter and bring the matrimonial relation to an end with mutual consent.
first advice is to talk to her and to her family...m not suggesting u to accept the allegations or accusations.
legal steps may create few problems for u as well as ur parents and other relatives also.
better bring the things to a logical end by amicably settling the dispute.
Jayashree Hariharan
(Expert) 30 June 2009
Best is to talk to your wife, and know what is in her mind. this is very important.
If she refuses to talk one to one, take some common friends or relatives from both sides and talk. Pls don't bring her or ur parents for talk as they will be emotional, it involves their daughter / son.
Best in this case is amicable settlement, either way, since going to court by either of you accusing one another will lead to lot of troubles. Further, such matrimonial cases require circumstantial evidence, solid proof is not necessary.
Best wishes.
Jatin Sapra 9312223345,Delhi
(Expert) 30 June 2009
Amicable settlement may be aan option but not the only option u have.
There are other option also you just take legal advice on this point becouse cannot be discussed on blogging or answering the questions like this .So take steps under legal advice as this is veri cricial that u take right steps at right time.
rupareliya
(Expert) 26 July 2009
u should go with ur cast member and ask her for divorce dont go for any legal action other wise u and ur family member may fall in denger she may file fals complain and fit ur famely member in denger
