Deceiving and defeating by spouse

Guest (Querist) 04 October 2018 This query is : Resolved
Hi,
This is 11th year of our marriage and have a 9months old kid.
Recently, particularly after the baby came home, i came to know that my spouse lied to me several time. My in-laws did wrong things like using insulting words, taunting, forcefully showed themselves superior though i never think of kind of show off. All those things were silently supported by my spouse but it was deliberately hidden to console me. Now i have told that i should have adjusted with those insult as they felt that there was nothing insulting.
I am now forced to lead life as per their choice or i can move out of that family. I have compromised my health, career, wishes everything for them in recent past.
I know people will advise me for divorce. But i am not in mood. I have given more than my capacity to this marriage, now as my spouse is not interested to understand his faults, rather till lying to me, trying regulate my life against my wish to satisfy own sheet ego, i want to file a case of deceiving, defamation or whatever best possible option available in ndian law.
I tried with local lawyer, but they also after divorce. I need the community’s help to find proper section numbers which will help me to fight against such a dishonest spouse.
I must make it clear here, i m not going to free the person through divorce. I have given my best to this marriage so i deserve the same. Either my spouse realises the fault and get rectified or gets punished as per law and order of india.
So please guide me to move. It is urgent.

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Vijay Raj Mahajan (Expert) 04 October 2018
Ok so you are looking for long-term confict with your husband at all cost even if that ultimately spoils your matrimonial home for ever.
So for all acts he has committed, add bit of spices and the acts of domestic violence is the outcome for which you can file complaint against him and his other relatives living in shared household with you.
You try to get compensation for all wrongs committed by them.
You seek protection order against them for keeping reasonable distance from you and your children.
Get complete custody and maintenance for your children from your husband, even if he's providing let it be mentioned in order of the court to make it binding for future, thus preventing him from moving out of this responsibility.
Seek right to residence and all facility attached to it for self at the cost of husband, again if he's providing it let him commit it in court and get bound by order of the court.
If you're unemployed ask for maintenance for yourself, even if you're working but short of finances ask support from him to fulfill your needs.
For the time being this will be good for his harassment, rest as things proceed more can be added to the list of litigation.
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