Divorce
Raj singh
(Querist) 08 June 2012
This query is : Resolved
Dear Sir,
Please advice:
Last Year in Feb 2011 I got married staying with my family, after 1 month of marriage we started having arguments on small things, some how drag the relationship and then it started with bitter fights one or the other day. I found there is mental incompatibility between us. Both of us did best of our efforts, from each other end. But now at this stage I feel not to continue this relation , becoz we don't agree with each other , and no respect for each other and cannot think of starting a family and we have tried all efforts since 1.5 years of our marriage. Now she has started bouncing for any conversation we are having with negative reply.
There is no problem between my family and my wife but they knows the relation between us. She don't want to give divorce at any cost , I said I am ready to give what ever she wants and she said suffer in this relation I will not change and will do as per my wish.
Wife Background
His family status is less then us
She is MBA and recently left the job.
On what basis, Can I File for divorce as it would be very difficult to prove the ground of mental incompatibility ?
Do I have my rights not to stay with my wife at any cost based on mental incompatibility between us ?
Emails communication and chat are valid proofs ?
SAINATH DEVALLA
(Expert) 09 June 2012
It is not mental incompatibility between both but lack of understanding.Even for small and minute things people start fiing cases and run after the courts.Marriage is a one time affair in human life and it is our duty to safegaurd it.What both of you need is not divorce but good family councelling.Repair your marriage with with wisdom.
mukesh Gupta
(Expert) 10 June 2012
the sincere advice of Devalla jee is need to be follow. However, emails are valid proof.
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 20 June 2012
Very rightly said, try to make the marriaage work.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
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