Divorce
Minal
(Querist) 23 December 2011
This query is : Resolved
my caste is hindu-bhoi :from the date of my marriage my husband brother has problem with me and due to this their are quarrel between me and my husband lot of time I explain my husband lot of time that if such problem is arising tell ur brother not to talk with me and keep calm atmosphere in the house but he said nothing to his brother lot of time he has given me mental tension that I try to committed suicide and also try to left from house but due to my husband I drop both idea but quarrel & fight between me and my husband remain the same. When the permanence new was confirmed I said to my husband that plz let this 9 month go they we will solve all the problem but nothing positive happen. So in 7 month of permanence I left house has came to my parent house my husband agree on such decision after lot of quarrel. but as i came her he kept now contact and balm me for all of this then also i contact him but totally change from that day and was opposite of me and in the mean while my mother in law and husband and his brother try to explain my parent that she is wrong and we all r right I have committed lot of mistake and blaming me and now also the same thing has been their. An when my father went their to talk with then they has not listen to him and try to balm me
my father and other family member thing that sending me back to that house is not possible so if I take divorce for how many year my child will not be taken from me.
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 23 December 2011
Repeated query.
Child custody if fought would be decided on welfare of the child concept.
However till 5 years teh child would remain in your custody.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
harassed.by.498a@gmail.com
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 23 December 2011
First of all, you have to secure yourself and have to teach a lesson to your husband and his other family members especially your brother in law who used to tease and harass you and who has spoiled your life.
You can file criminal case under sectio 498A, DV Act, maintenance etc.
Child shall remain with you at least up to 10 years.
M V Gupta
(Expert) 24 December 2011
Follow the advice of Mr. Makkad. As you are expecting ur child it would not be advisable to file case for divorce. File a complaint against ur brother in law and husband as suggested above and seek maintenance.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 27 December 2011
Minal, Child born if boy, custody for 5 yrs, if girl, till her marriage, unless she want to be with father.
Welfare of child is paramount consideration, however, usually they are given to mother with adequate maintenance.
Problem of separation starts during pregnancy, as I explained the hormone changes the nature, and irritate wife, that result in strain relationship.
so better, do not over react, Do not take tension, be cool and calm for few months. Try to keep good relation with your husband.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 29 December 2011
Query has been repeated. Post your further queries in the same post earlier.
