Divorce
lost in the world
(Querist) 25 July 2012
This query is : Resolved
I am 29 years old married male, resident of a small village of Rajasthan.Six years ago, my parents show me a girl and asked me how is she? I casually said she is good, without knowing that they are asking me this for marriage purpose.When I came to know this I refused to marry that girl and called her father and herself and told them that I don't want to marry. Still I had to get marry because of family pressure.
But after marriage also I never lived with my wife.We don't have any relation.We are not living together since we married. She says that she is here because of my property.But she is pretends to be an ideal daughter in law infront of my parents. She said that she will make me out of my own house and will live with my parents. And she is doing this only. I live in a rented flat in Jaipur and she lives with my parents.
Now I want to take divorce so that we both can move a head in our lives. But she is not ready.She wants to stay with my family forever. Also, my parents are not with me in this decision. Infact they say that she is their daughter and I am not their Son anymore.
But I want to get free from this relationship as its been 6 years and there is no point in being into this relation.Its just for name.
Is there any law which can help me out in taking divorce when my parents and my so called wife is not ready for it.
Please help me.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 25 July 2012
Filing a suit for divorce is now your only option unless you decide to pass rest of your life with this lady.
lost in the world
(Querist) 25 July 2012
Thank You Devajyoti...
But my question is Can I do so and get divorce when my parents are not with me?
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 01 February 2013
If a boy of 25 was shown a girl and asked by parents, how is this GIRL
Meaning is clear: Do you like to marry her? & your answer was YES.
So it is doubtful that it was forceful marriage.
You are hiding the facts.
Your Wife is too good to leave her parents and serving your parents, though you do not want her for the reasons best known to you.
Marriage is not denied.
You never said she is ugly or bad character or any defect in her.
She is scarifying everything for you, and you left her and your parents , living alone.
Even your parents feel, you are wrong.
Your allegation that she want property is baseless, and certainly false.
All your allegations are unbelievable, and false.
Any other shrewd Lady would have demanded Maintenance, DV. 498, and with your money enjoyed life at her parent's home, or took away residence too.
Better RETHINK.
IT IS NEVER TOO LATE.
TRY TO LOVE HER. UR PARENTS WILL ALSO BE HAPPY, AND "SRAP WILL TURN INTO AASHIRWAD?"
Try to give Happiness to others, and u will be happy.
Otherwise u r bound to repent, Society , Samaj will not respect you, they will hate you for spoiling life of a obedient Girl. you are a loser.
