Divorce
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 08 August 2018
This query is : Resolved
I got married 3 month back after one and half month my husband saying he want divorce because he is not able to falling in love with me so he need divorce and now I got pregnant so now he is saying abort our baby n we will file divorce he don't wAnt to stay with me so what should I do please help me because I don't want abort my baby n I don't want divorce please help me
Vijay Raj Mahajan
(Expert) 08 August 2018
Just keep your pregnancy as termination pregnancy is a crime. You husband made you pregnant and he may in future may even refute the same and blame you for termination of pregnancy because of ulterior motives on your part just for taking divorce on this ground. You may take help of your parents to keep your marriage intact through Mediation and Conciliatory process with the help of parents of your husband and other relatives of both sides.
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 08 August 2018
Ok thank you for your advice but in his family only his mother and sister and they are did something's to him always they saying do divorce with your wife she is not good for you and he is saying I will never leave my sister but I leave you so I said don't leave her I don't have any issue from her but they people only in one sense i want divorce his family supporting him they are saying what he want he will do they don't have any issue but in my family they are trying to patch up so in this situation what should I do and what our law says please tell me
Vijay Raj Mahajan
(Expert) 09 August 2018
The husband is supposed to apply his mind not the mind of his mother or sister, he married a woman to be with him as life-partner for life not for few days or months. If he is such a senseless person who is getting influenced by what his mother or sister says then better he should be referred to some good psychologist or marriage counsellor for counselling . The facts of the case does not suggest to be fit case for dissolution of marriage by decree of divorce. even if the husband convince the wife for divorce by mutual consent, ultimately it will be his loss more then his wife.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 09 August 2018
Pls don’t post as AQ and post with your ID and you can get many replies.
Your ID does not mean your email id or phone number and don’t post these also.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 09 August 2018
Marriage and divorce after marriage is not just as simple as buying candy from LOCAL grocery store.
Litigation can be protracted, stressful, expensive…
While a bad counsel may rush his clients to court, a good counsel shall advise pros and cons and counsel the parties to mend the ways and save the marriage…….
Many cases of divorce initiated by either spouse fall flat.
The presiding officer in the court may not act like the unwise mother and sister and handover decree of divorce just like that.
A good counsel shall also advise his/her client about traps that are laid by unscrupulous IT’s and entities that loiter at each location at online portals to allure unsuspecting querists…….. and how to build irrefutable record to defend the interest of the client.
IT is not in interest of either spouse to marry and contemplate divorce at the flick of a coin and run to Lawyers and then get rushed to courts.
The courts shall examine the case and merits and decide per provisions of law…
The spouse that has erred and so lacks on evidences and merits, usually suffers..
Remember IT and tie the knot on IT.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 09 August 2018
Both of you may involve elders of the family, neutral well wishers, mediators, trained Counselor, and a very able senior LOCAL counsel of unshakable repute and integrity specializing in Family/Civil matters and well versed with latest citations, LOCAL applicable rules/laws/ … and having successful track record…. and worth his/her salt…..with whom you may share inputs /show the documents/evidence for a considered opinion..
At each location three are some counsels that specialize in such matters and they are well known.
Check for such counsels at LOCAL mediations centers, Family/ civil courts, HC, SC……
The sensible ones shall counsel to crease all differences and lead and enjoy happy married life.
After counseling both and spouses and their parents may mend their ways..
If workable and possible stay separately with spouse, to save the marriage and not just to separate the spouse from parents……….
There is NO dearth of good counsels, at any LOCAL location.
Check LOCALLY as already suggested above.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 10 August 2018
@ Anonymous,
Impractical and unbelievable story, find out amicable solution.
Do not think of divorce at the initial stage of your married life, if there is some truth in your query.
