divorce case
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 19 February 2011
This query is : Resolved
Sir,
I have been facing cruelty from my wife for the past one year and now after so much waiting, where she has spoken wrong words and insulted my parent who are aged 75 and 68.She and her father kept on threatening me that they will file false case. So after 1 yr completion, I have filed the divorce case and after which she have filed false case of dv against me and my family members. I am very strong and confident that i am not going to support such kind of bad elements. Whatever she has put in her affidavict is all wrong and false. This is now handle by the lawyer. I also have read in the web about all the consequences and challenges that will arise and then only decided to apply for this case.
Kindly suggest me how i can over come this. One thing for sure is iam not only fighting this for me alone, I would like to make this a general fight for all men who suffer like this.
I wouldnt say that i would like to safe guard all my money which i earned all these days, but I can spend that on some good purpose but not for a person who is like this for extorting money.
How can i overcome if any order of interim relief is passed, which I don't want to give.
Please help me out.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 19 February 2011
The problem is you may prove yourself to be not guilty but you may not save yourself from giving maintenance to your wife as long as does not re marry or earns a handsome salary.
So forget everything and give her a befitting reply in court.
Ajay Bansal
(Expert) 19 February 2011
Agreed with Devajyoti.
Uma parameswaran
(Expert) 19 February 2011
You can challenge it by filing appeal.
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 27 February 2011
Ok sir, thanks for all for the reply.
I am anyhow going to file for an appeal.
I would like to know the following things.
1. What is the consequence that i don't agree to pay the maintenance amount. As far as i googled, i found one year of imprisonment. is that right and/or fine of some amount.
2. Iam not taking this as personal case. I would like this to spread out atleast, make something big to prevent anybody else getting trapped in future.
3. I would like to convey again that though difficult, i have made up my mind to fight this false act.
Sorry that iam not refusing to take up your advise. You all have given me the real facts and how to solve this.
Infact i have suffered cruelty living with her. She has gone to the extend of hitting me and in our home, she always had the upper hand.
Already me and my family are going to the XXX place frequently i.e 2 hearing and next hearing on next week in march 1st week.
Please advise.
