Divorce - i dnt wnt to lose my husband.
manno
(Querist) 20 October 2012
This query is : Resolved
Please help. I don't want to lose my husband. whether i win or lose the case he's Filed, either way I end up losing my husband. is there a way to make him stay? He's alleged
cruelty on my part. But I have doctor's reports stating that it's the other way round. however can I ask the judge to make him stay with me?
Guest
(Expert) 21 October 2012
You may file Restitution of Conjugal Rights, but if you really want your husband then contest vigorously the divorce petition filed by him.
Ashish Davessar
Advocate
Supreme Court of India
Punjab and Haryana High Court
Rajeev Kumar
(Expert) 21 October 2012
You can file section 9 of HMA for restitution of conjugal right and vigorously contest the divorce petition.
Guest
(Expert) 21 October 2012
Experts have rightly advised.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 21 October 2012
Many means & ways if u really want ur husband back.
Legally RCR is OK,
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 21 October 2012
There can not be a solution to your desire unless you both resolve to coordinate.Legal remedies suggested are there but can not be very effective without true bonding between you two.
manno
(Querist) 21 October 2012
so if I refuse to give divorce, can the judge
force us to separate?.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 21 October 2012
No, if you refuse to divorce and the suit for divorce is not decreed then you remain his wife.
K.K.Ganguly
(Expert) 21 October 2012
You will stay as his wife legally but the basic question whether practically you will get your husband or not shall have to be answered by yourself only by amicably settling the difference.
R.venkatesh Naidu
(Expert) 21 October 2012
it is the better way that you may file petition under sect.9 of Hindu marriage act and simultaneously you may also file a petition under 24 of hindu marriage act for interim maintainance.
manno
(Querist) 21 October 2012
i will put up his petition tomorrow. plz go through it . I really would like to take a proper step
manno
(Querist) 21 October 2012
i wish i could thank everyone but i do not see thank you button. so thank you all. i will put up his petition tomorrow or you to see. is it legal to do so?
MohammedRaffiq Bijapur
(Expert) 22 October 2012
Manno is it you shalini. if so i believe ur queries are answered with shalini tag.
manno
(Querist) 22 October 2012
no its not shalini
jatin sharma
(Expert) 22 October 2012
refer your case to mediation center,they will help you.
manno
(Querist) 23 October 2012
what is a mediation center?
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 23 October 2012
MARRIAGE COUNCILLORS:
They try to find out root cause of your disputes and mis-understanding, and try to patch up your marriage relationship.
welcome effort
manno
(Querist) 26 October 2012
thank u everyone
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 26 October 2012
OK , no need to thank, we r performing our hon. duty.
manno
(Querist) 28 October 2012
along with his petition, my husband has submitted some chats and sms's. he has always had access to my phone and email id.
how do i see what [so called] proof has he submitted to implicate me?all these chats and sms's that he has submitted with his petition.
also, how can i legally get access to his credit card statement and phone records?
can the lawyer that i hire requisition for it through the court?
i am currently extremely ill, and have not been working since last year. however my husband has alleged that i have told him that i will never work so that he keeps paying me maintenance. this is a lie.
i didn't even know that this was a possibility.
i am not a graduate and finding a good job is difficult in my stressed situation.
he has always known that.
education does not ensure emotional strength in anyone. and i haven't been able to perform at interviews because i have been extremely traumatized by my husband
i can't sleep, have high BP and constant migraines.i am extremely afraid.
he's alleged everything in the law book that is a reason for a divorce.
cruelty, greed for his money (he hardly has any), physical abuse as well as insanity.
He's contradicting himself by calling me insane as well as able to hold a job. I have been depressed because o his behavior, so much that i was rushed to the hospital for a panic attack. He's using that as an excuse or insanity. I am very afraid.
he's asked for a psych evaluation by a psychiatrist.
Advocate Rajkumarlaxman
(Expert) 20 October 2012
