Don't want to live in forcefull marriage
varsha kukreja
(Querist) 27 September 2018
This query is : Resolved
Hello all lawyers
I need your help I m 25 yr girl I got married forcefully by my parents nd my family. Actually my story is I m in love with a boy who is 25 yr old nd belongs to same caste. I introduce him with my family and initially they accept him I told my family that he is doing job in Indore city but his hometown neemuch city. He doesn't have its own house in indore city but have his parents home in neemuch. I already cleared everything to my family and he also cleared them and he also said that soon he buy home on loan in Indore city. Nd we both said that we both doing job nd we can manage all things in our way after all his salary is 35k nd mine is 30k . He recently live in rental 1bhk flat in indore.Time passed after 6 months of this conversation his family come to meet my family as per my family demand. Nd after few days of this meeting my family suddenly denied that we can't marry u with that guy. And give some illogical reasons that he doesn't have home where u live what u do he is not good in looks what society said to us. I said we both doing job and soon we paln to start our business but my family never agree.i told them we are just 25 yrs old we have more 5 yrs to more settle ourself. i convince them alot. Did Every possible things to convince them. But when I stick on my decision that I want to Mary with only him then they started torture me did emotional blackmail said if u did this we gonna do suicide nd when I tried u reject marriage proposals of another guys they said if u not say yes we will die, nd doing emotional blackmail Nd did forcefully my marriage to another guy in July 2018 But now I m not happy with my marriage. I don't want to live in this forcefull marriage what should I do please help me.
Guest
(Expert) 27 September 2018
Discuss in a polite manner with your husband in a very amicable manner pleasantly and convince him for Mutual Consent Divorce which could be completed at the earliest as per Supreme Court Directions, On saying Please would fetch a good result.
varsha kukreja
(Querist) 27 September 2018
If he doesn't give me divorce then what will I do??
varsha kukreja
(Querist) 27 September 2018
If he doesn't give me divorce then what will I do??
varsha kukreja
(Querist) 27 September 2018
can i leave my husband home nd live some other place beacuse i mjob oriented girl i can handle my expenses
Vijay Raj Mahajan
(Expert) 27 September 2018
Ok, you may move out and live independently as you so desire. If your husband agree for divorce you both can go for divorce by mutual consent.
Even if you start living with the lover no criminal complaint against him for adultery under section 497 IPC can be filled by your husband against him, after the latest Supreme Court judgment where they struck down this provision of law as unconstitutional.
What else you can do in such situation.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 28 September 2018
As I cud mk out fm ur SMS/ stpd lnguge of the qry....
You have stated to be mature and working lady of 25 years age, but dependant upon the wish of your parents at the cost of your love, is it not absurd. However, portion of the story is history/ background of current circumstances where you are dissatisfied with your husband/ in-laws and planning to get rid of your matrimonial obligations, isn't it?
If so, either to compromise and save your marriage institution or stay alone at your own without any kind of (moral, social or legal) support from your parents and in-laws. Your married life is in the initial stage it would be better to continue, however, do not adventure to plan for divorce.
varsha kukreja
(Querist) 28 September 2018
I don't want this marriage I know myself I can't give that happiness to my husband. Which he deserve. Be cause I m not happy. After all my consent is also matters. I don't want this forcefull marriage. I want to know that can I leave my husband home nd leave alone. I can live independent nd I want to be live independent
Guest
(Expert) 28 September 2018
Simple, hire a local layer and apply for legal divorce.
