Ex parte divorce as wife address is not known.
Sarathy
(Querist) 26 March 2019
This query is : Resolved
Hi Sir,
I don’t know where-about of my wife for the last 10 years. we have a son of 14 years old. She used to visit me occasionally like once in a year or sometimes once in two years (I am in Chennai). I know that she is working in Bangalore.
She doesn’t want to live together. But she is ok to meet me at the place where I am living. 18 months ago, she visited me in Chennai at that time I asked about living together also I told her that I may get transferred to Bangalore. She was not showing any interest on that topic. If I force her about living together, she will become angry and will tell all the reason for not living together.
So, I didn’t have any further discussion. She took jewels and other items from me. She stayed with me for few days and left.
So, I applied for divorce and tried to find out her address. Also, I went to the place (Bangalore) where she was living in the year of 2010. I was told she vacated the house. I tried to talk to her through the phone. (By that time someone informed her that I was searching for her). She got angry and shouted at me why are you searching for me like a village person. I asked for mutual divorce since she was not ready to live with me. Then as usual Quarrel. She told me to go and get the divorce if I can. She blocked my number. I tried from other number again she blocked me by hearing my voice.
Now since we don’t know about her whereabouts, recently I got the EX-PARTY divorce.
She is a vengeance taking lady. She will turn her tongue at any time. Since I don’t know where she is living for the past 10 years, shall I file a complaint in the woman’s police station at my native place. Is it required? I don’t how to ask or what to ask more on this issue.
If any help or suggestion on this issue would be very helpful.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 27 March 2019
No need to proceed further as you have already had a decree of divorce.
Seek guidance of your lawyer if you want to get it published in the newspaper(s) circulated in Bangalore preferably the paper read by your ex-wife.
Guest
(Expert) 27 March 2019
Your story is unbelievable.
However, enjoy ex=parte divorce and handover copy to her as and when she visits you again, as she often come to you and live with you.
Be happy with your lot.
