Dear experts it is my last question pls read fully and answer me and pls don't neglect to answer.
Guest
(Querist) 27 December 2011
This query is : Resolved
I and My wife were loving since 2006 and married on 04/03/2011 under special marriage act before a registrar.We were true to each other.We had faced lot of problems while loving.Her parents were really torturing her and her father was not behaving as a father.So My wife was always trying to come out from there. I urged her to wait until 18 so when we married she was 18 and four moths and I was 22.She was studying so we were waiting for that to complete.But once when her father tried to beat her she said about the marriage and our relation but did not say about consummation and our secret things.She has said only the things what a girl can say to her family.Their parents forced her to suit the petition to declare null and void.There they have mentioned that I was forcing and fraud and not consummated.We had consummated till September in my room and at her home when ever there were nobody at her home.I understand one thing that the petition was written by her parents and suited .The main thing is since October we could not meet or talk because her parents do not allow for that and always following her and disconnected the phone also.The main thing to object is I am from tamil family and christian but my wife is from kerala and hindu.
I have decided to go by person to the court because I also don’t like to say and show our secret things to the advocates .Can I say these to the court before questioning me on the first day.Will I get a chance to talk with my wife.pls give me some ideas to get my wife back.The hearing is next week.I thing it will be better to contest and prove after talking to my wife.
My Evidences are Love letters,Photos taken in my room,Some Sms,Her two dresses(Secret).
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 27 December 2011
Since it is a matrimonial suit the court would fix one date for reconciliation when you can can pour your heart out before the judge,
But before that you need to file a written statement for which you may require an advocate.
If your young wife so wishes you can lodge complaint with the police against her wrongful restraint.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 27 December 2011
You talk to your wife during councilling.
You demand time to file your Say. [called WS], & it will be granted pending Councillor Report.
I cant' understand what secret?? what usually young boys and girls do is obvious. Nothing wrong in explaining whatever your secrets to your Advocate, whatever it may be.
God Bless you.
Parents too, take care of their daughter, and she goes disobedient, run away, the moment she is 18, bring lots of disrepute and embarrassed to daughter's family. They cannot face the "Samaj", the "Nyata" and the Society. One must consider their situation too. They are not wrong, in doing so. Slowly it cool down, and you have to wait for it, and prove yourself worthy of her choice.They should be proud to get a Son in law of your caliber!!If Not, Improve your worthiness by the time Court take it's time.
Don't do in hurry, do not use violence or Poloce involvements. Habious Corpus also fails, Writs in High Court are decided in Daughter's parent's favour.
evidence are ignored, as time changed.
God Bless you,
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 27 December 2011
I have already advised you to ask for a chamber meeting for both of you.
Or refer both of you to mediation.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
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mahendrakumar
(Expert) 28 December 2011
a very good and mature advise Mr.Shroff.
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 28 December 2011
agree with opinion of Mr.V R SHROFF
Deepak Nair
(Expert) 28 December 2011
I too agree with Mr.Sroff.
Dear Jayapal,
if the issues are too personal, you can request the court for in-camera proceeding.
But, you need to appoint a lawyer to handle this case if you want to succeed.
Sailesh Kumar Shah
(Expert) 28 December 2011
In addition to above,I suggest you that don't hide anything from your advocate.
It would be in your interest.
