Matromonial matter / divorce
sonika
(Querist) 02 March 2012
This query is : Resolved
Dear Sir / Madam..
Hi, i 30 yrs old woman from delhi, working in a reputed company.
i have lots of query regarding matrimonial issues..pls find my brief details..
1.got married last year in march
2. we only 3 people living in the house , me, husband & mother in law.
3. one brother in low living separately with his wife not with us.
4.after 2-3 months issues starts between me and my husband or money matter, ego issues, rude behavior towards my family..etc..all are illogical issues.
5.suddenly i lost my Mother in aug 11..at that time also my husband has not give me any kind of emotional support..
6. from aug onwards i m not living with my husband..i had gone there for 12 days in oct month for settle all the issues..but those 12 days are honorably days of my life..
7. he started abusing me for money, for physical needs, for household work,illogical blames, wrong allegations ...between this period he has purchased a gun so that he can take full control on me...my life was miserable over there..
8.after that he started problems for my job also..and forcing me for the divorce..situation was not under control..at last i hav left the house on 12th october 11.
.9 till the day he has not taken any step to settle down the issues..
Pl suggest me what can i do ..i have written very brief story..i was harassed by him at all levels (emotionally, mentally, physically)..at that time my sleeping hrs was reduced to 2-3 hrs only..i was like a labor over there..who has no respect, no identity..
me and my family is not much financially strong and not much educated for legal matters.
Pls advise the best option i can take against him & save my future life.
Sonika.
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 02 March 2012
Hi Sonika,
It is sad that house is breaking.
If you both can not resolve the issues amicably, you can ask for a Mutual consented divorce.
It also depends on what you want to salvage from this marriage.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
harassed.by.498a@gmail.com
ajay sethi
(Expert) 02 March 2012
you cna file complaint under DV act . seek a protection order as he has threatened to harm you physically and has purchased a gun .
since you are working in a reputed company you may not get any maintenance .
best option is to get divorce by mutual consent
Kirti Kar Tripathi
(Expert) 02 March 2012
It is very initial stage and if it is handled properly, matters can be solved. So my advice it take help of your family members and mutual friends. Otherwise you both have legal options.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 02 March 2012
As no harm , no issues, no children, if you so wish, go for MCD.
IF BOTH OF YOU TRY TO PATCH, IT IS THE BEST.
How many persons and things we manage in Company, but fail to manage our relationship, as we are very selfish.
Relations improves by scarify, giving something to others. share happiness, not material.
If one can't, get separated, but who forecast second husband's nature?? or something wrong with your nature??
Too early to decide. eep quite for 3 months , wait and watch , watch inside your heart too.
God Bless you Sonika.
sonika
(Querist) 02 March 2012
Sir..Me and my family tried to settle down all things but he and his family not taking any step towards the solution....on 12th of October i had come to my dad home from the office only..coz situation was pathetic....my all belonging are lying with him only till day
.now he is asking for my id proofs so that he can prepare documents for divorce.....
R.K Nanda
(Expert) 02 March 2012
Dear Client,
Go for divorce as things are worst for you.
Save ur life from such person like ur husband.
Please feel free, if you require more advise, then contact me on Mobile Via Path Legal.
All the Best.
R.K.NANDA - ADVOCATE
DELHI HIGH COURT & SUPREME COURT OF INDIA
Nadeem Qureshi
(Expert) 02 March 2012
Dear Sonika
The question is, what do you want?
1. live with him?
2. you want divorce?
3. you want maintinence?
4. you want revenge?
feel free to call
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 02 March 2012
Sonika! You have no need to call any expert.
So far as behaviour with you is concerned, it is definitely below your status and inhumane and none can justify but see you have not a big family in the in-laws. In initial years of marriage generally some misunderstanding occur and its takes some time to understand each other. Minor day to day family clashes should not be regarded as base for seeking divorce.
I am of the personal view that you should win the trust of your mother in law. I am also of the view that when you came to your parental home during the month of Oct. 2011, you might have told to you mother in law if not to your husband. Such minor things become major especially when there remain a communication gap between the husband and wife.
You should not start any litigation at this early stage of marriage and should try with the core of your heart to settle the issues amicably with mutual trust. If all sincere and honest efforts become fail only then take recourse of law as advised.
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 04 March 2012
In marital problems legal remedies provided are not medicines but surgery.
And every body know we should try first medicines to cure a disease and so go true for your case too.
Keep your self safe from advertisers among us.
