Inter caste marriage
harshit
(Querist) 11 July 2012
This query is : Resolved
hi..myslf harshit gupta..22 years..wanna know that im baiya nd loves a girl who is brahamin..21yrs of age..we r in a relationship fr almost 3 years...nd hve a very good understanding..but their parents are against love marriage nd inter caste marriage nd also they do not know about our relation..few days ago her parents said that they will do suicide if anything happens lyk this..from den on she got afraid nd said that nw w'll be friends...i knw she loves me but bcoz of this...we r studens final year engg..i said everythig to convince her..but she is sticking to her decision..it is not at all easy for her and good for our relation..she said that she will not tell their parents..i said ok..when wewill be in a good post or job..until den u will not tell them..how can we suddenly cange our feelings fom lovers to friends...it difficlt for both of us..but she dont want to listen anything..she is saying that w r gud frends now...what to do now..how to convince her..telll me..we both love each other very much..
R.K Nanda
(Expert) 11 July 2012
As both of you are majors go for court marriage at the earliest.You are fully right
that one cannot change him/her feelings
from lovers to friends as it is not possible.Marry the girl at the earliest
otherwise she will ditch you.
Nadeem Qureshi
(Expert) 12 July 2012
Dear Querist
if both of you are major then you have right to live with your own will and desire, if both of you are ready to marry each other no need to wait go to the court or temple and fulfill your dreams.
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