Can i get divorce?
ravi
(Querist) 27 July 2013
This query is : Resolved
Dear sir/mam,
I am ravi, my marriage was done on 22-oct-2012, and she is from vizag and i am staying at Rajahmundry, my mother got paralysis stroke on 20-dec-2012(after two months of marriage),before my wife alwas went to her home without my permission and she stayed ther for 10days and more than that. when my mother got this problem then she stayed there from past three months. even there family never contact me on this regard.
I have four sisters and they got married, now my elder sister staying with me to serve my mother. me and my father also taking care about my mother. my mother cant move her right hand and right leg and even cant talk properly.
now they are asking for separate family, they want to separate me from my mother. which was unethical and unjustice.
so i want divorce from her, guide me to get divorce
thanks and regards
Ravi
ajay sethi
(Expert) 27 July 2013
inform your wife that as your mother had a paralytic stroke there is no question of staying separate now . it is only when she is completely recovered can you think of staying separately .
ajay sethi
(Expert) 27 July 2013
you can also visit a marriage counsellor with your wife . since you have been married only in OCt 2012 you cant file for divorce before expiry of one year of your marriage .
if your wife is agreeable go for divorce by mutual consent
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 27 July 2013
As you can not file any petition of divorce just now,your endeavor should be to make communications evidence that during the period of need she is not only staying away from you but also pressing for a separate living knowing fully that your mother due to paralysis attack needs care and nursing,sms her time and again,talk her making voice recorded,email her if she has address etc.,offer her counselling,so that you may have sufficient evidence to prove her cruelty.
ravi
(Querist) 27 July 2013
but sir, their family was not ready to send her, and she went on may 4 2013, from that day to till date they didn't talk with me. and her father scold me very badly at that time.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 27 July 2013
If the family of your wife is not ready to send her to your house at this juncture when you need her help for caring you mother, it do come within the ambit of cruelty and you can definitely file it after one year of your marriage.