Divorce matter
Gururaj S K
(Querist) 16 October 2016
This query is : Resolved
Thanks a lot for this forum. Hereby I would request for suggestion. My wife forcing me to give divorce. But I am not interested in giving divorce. She quote that I am not taking care of her needs. Being a middle class men I can't live like filmy scenes.
Also she avoid intercourse from past 2yrs. She creates the scenario and made me a bad boy in front of there parents and sisters.
Also she is not ready to come to my native place from past 1and half years to look after my parents at least for a day.
Pl suggest can I go ahead and apply for mutual Divorce. If it's mutual then do I have share my salary after my divorce.
Pl help.
P. Venu
(Expert) 17 October 2016
Her actions could be proved to cruelty. You may succeed in getting divorce on this ground if procedure is followed and material facts are taken care of.
In a mutual divorce, the terms of divorce settlement depends upon facts and circumstances, which this query has not fully disclosed.
dr g balakrishnan
(Expert) 17 October 2016
In mutual divorce you can ask her as she wants divorce while you aren't, she shd waive her right of demand of alimony. if aggreeable , you can give her mutual separation. that way you can save from the liability.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 17 October 2016
There is no reason in present situation for not accepting her demand.
If she is not interested to live together, asking for divorce, it is better to proceed with mutual consent divorce.
Relation is in the situation seem to be of non reparable position.
dr g balakrishnan
(Expert) 17 October 2016
Most Indians really first of all not understood the very importance of marriage when so how could one expect the new generation really understood what could be the right divorce as such.
Problem today is the spouses do not understand their balanced commitments to each other, as today spouses work on the basis of some one's borrowed advice - after all any advice provider has his own axe to grind, that aspect the spouses never realize in the right time as such; when they see their children are on the streets they realize what use when proverbial Luknow ki gadi chut gaya' from the station!
dr g balakrishnan
(Expert) 17 October 2016
Advocates tell the spouse how to get rid of the other spouse and also tell how 'alimony' can be escaped ; who is the loser ?
dr g balakrishnan
(Expert) 17 October 2016
I find counselling cell try to save the marriages; but advocates of respective spouses advice how not to compromise i saw at Banda court in Bombay; i say Agnes tried to save a marriage of a family; but how the advocate seeing the parent of the spouse involved , insisted for divorce, even if the brother of that person tried to save, that opportunity helped our advocate to get some better fees, like in motor vehicles tribunals, that way half inclined for saving the marriage was just made that person to finally go with the father.
the advocate told me later why i am interested to save if my fees is less but if my fees is great by seeing the divorce has succeeded. that is the family courts problems in today's india.
Gururaj S K
(Querist) 17 October 2016
Thanks a lot for the suggestion. I will wait for some more time with out filing for divorce. If she can't understand then only option for me will be taking divorce.
Gururaj S K
(Querist) 17 October 2016
I have never stopped her going to job. Not even asked to spend even a single ruppee for house management from her salary.
But expect her to give respect my parents. She is so hard hearted that when my father admitted in hospital, she don't have concern to come once atleast.
Ms.Usha Kapoor
(Expert) 18 October 2016
Try to save your marriage. Settle all your matrimonial disputes amiably with a spirit of camaraderie.If you appreciate this answer please click the thank you button on my profile.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 18 October 2016
As I have mentioned earlier, the marriage does not seem to continue, reason may be any, if she is asking for divorce, try for mutual consent divorce.
Guest
(Expert) 18 October 2016
Well advised.
