Need suggestion from experts to execute my challenge against my ex gf
vicky523624
(Querist) 29 December 2014
This query is : Resolved
Dear Law experts,
I am a middle class employee working as an engineer in Hyderabad. My GF and her family stays in bhiwandi near Mumbai. She is my own uncle’s daughter. From my childhood to last four years my uncle’s family is a poor family. They used to ask our parents a lot to marry their daughter with me. My parents are also said ok but with a condition of children’s acceptance at their right age.
One day my uncle came to Hyderabad stay’s in my room and forcibly added his daughter profile in my FB friend list and asked me to interact each other. Initially I was not much interested due to that I didn’t met her from childhood, I don’t know her character..Etc. But she herself started chatting with me. And that chat shows her interest on me. I am also got connected to her as my parents also wants their maternal niece to become my wife. Later on I completely committed and loved truly. She also behaved like that only.
But meanwhile my uncles son has got a job in US, and sends money to India, they invests that in to their textile business and become somewhat rich than my family financial status. From that point their attitude changed, and started searching for some wealthier guy for their daughter.
And this girl is also planned to cheat me and slowly trying to avoid me. But she presents the relation in such way that she loves me very well, but because of their family interest, she is in confusion state. And I also told her if I can’t get married to her, I can’t live anymore. She catches that point and maintains the situation that she loves me, but their parents are forcing her and did house arrest..Etc.
She planned well to kill me (In the process of not talking to me, and giving the signals that reason is her parents. I thought really get suicide and almost tried). But luckily I didn’t, because in my mind I thought to talk to her once face to face then only to decide the things. After 6 months of gap, that meeting is happened after I came to know that she is engaged. And in that meeting I understood that she didn’t love me, she thought that I am an option, after she gets a wealthy guy she thought to leave me and also tried to make myself to get suicide because of her protection that she don’t want her husband to know her relationship with me.
That time I realized if I get suicide I will become a fool. And the same day I challenged her that I will ruin her life and make her to cry a lot for her cheating.
In this whole process my parents also got struggled a lot. Because of this metal pressure created by her own brother, my mother got an accident (leg fractured) and hospitalized, it will took 8 months to recover her health with 2 lacs money for surgery.
For me also I almost spent 3.5 years of time, 2 lacs of money on my love with her. And my mental pressure for last 10 months was too heavy, I almost cried alone every day.
Now she happily got married left me like this kind of situation. I know that legally I can’t do anything to her because of all laws in India are inclined to females. And I think by showing proofs to her husband also will not work much, because she may definitely well prepare him with her Oscar winning acting. And I feel this kind activity also so childish and immature. But I want to full fill my challenge. So in any other way I can fulfil my anger and shows her my capability. Please suggest me a plan.
Anirudh
(Expert) 29 December 2014
You yourself has very clearly and rightly said that your thought process and activities are Childish and Immature. Your query also falls into the same category. Try to grow up.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 29 December 2014
She has left you. There is no point in thinking of her anymore.
Move one life and settle with someone else. There is no dearth of probable bride in India.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 29 December 2014
@Adivicter24,
1. Is it your actual or assumed name?
2. Too long a story and it is not a query, be precise if you want some sort of FREE LEGAL EXPERT advise, opinion and guidence.
3. It would be more appropriate to engage and consult a local lawyer.
4. Whatsoever, I agree with both the experts hereinabove.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 29 December 2014
you need to consult a pyschiatrist . your gf has married and settled down with another man .
move on in life and forget her
Guest
(Expert) 29 December 2014
A good story!. You should have been a story writer or teller.
Anyway, why you feel that experts here should feel the compulsion to suggest you how to execute your challenge against your ex gf? If you have posed some challenge to your ex gf, you should be fully competent to meet with that. Challenges are not met free of cost. That cost a lot of time and money. So, hire services of some local lawyer to help you, if you have the strong urge to be successful in executing your challenge. Success or failure would depend upon your own luck.
However, a very simple question for you to answer, with what right you want to own her and deprive her from living her own married life?
Best of luck!
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 29 December 2014
Agree with the expert Devajyoti Barman and ajay sethi.
P. Venu 
(Expert) 29 December 2014
Your query contains no legal elements.
malipeddi jaggarao
(Expert) 29 December 2014
You should be nominated for Oscar Award in story-writing slot!.
K.K.Ganguly
(Expert) 29 December 2014
1. You are planning and proposing illegal act against her,
2. You can not ask lawyers how to do illegal things,
3. Forget her and move on in your life in your interest,
4. If you venture upon any illegal act, you may be in deep trouble legally which may be kept in mind.
Biswanath Roy
(Expert) 30 December 2014
You have no legal problem that needs our advice. Your alleged query is merely a product of silly and emotional state of mind. Please refrain from misusing our valuable time.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 30 December 2014
I think all the experts have advised you more than enough, it is high time you shed away all your avenging thoughts and settle in your life as per your own destiny.
