Divorce
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Anonymous
(Querist) 10 December 2011
This query is : Resolved
Dear Expert
Last 8 months back I got married. Now my wife is pregnant. But she doesnt want to live with me.
But I dont want to loose her. I want to live with her.
My father in law and brother in law forced my wife to take divorce.
Will she succeed?
She is class-1 state govt employee.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 10 December 2011
Then without wasting any time file a suit for restitution of conjugal rights.
In the meantime try to keep touch with your wife regularly.
Advocate Bhartesh goyal
(Expert) 10 December 2011
If you do not want divorce then file petition for reestitution of conjugal rights immediately.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 10 December 2011
My dear young and recently married boy/ man/ a future father??
Pl look at My different view point:
The Hormone changes, the development of milking process, child in womb, etc, Totally change the mental & thinking process during First Delivery of Child in women.
This is the Time all of us must take utmost care of such lady.
The in laws and concerned husband, and others failed to understand this Change, when she is at the point of giving birth to a human being.
She becomes irritating, having no feelings for sex and cohabitation, , have lots of motions inside the body, and she do not behave normal, during this vital period.
In my Research for causes of Separation, misunderstanding and that resulting in Divorce, this is a period that hit lots of matrimonial relations. That Wife never forget this period, and later on in revenge of her harassment, start harassing her in laws.
I advise you [Not a Lawyer, Though I have Mastery of Matrimonial Laws, ]
Go regularly and meet her , take care of your wife and your baby in womb, Listen to the movements and sound, it is unique and great , pleasing one. Keep your ear touching to listen it carefully.
Try to give whatever happiness that you can to her, forget about what her parents and your parents comment about it.
Do not even imagine starting Litigation at this point of time, after all she is going to deliver you your baby. She is 7/24 time doing your job, what no male can do, with pain that only ladies know.
Try to understand her, scarify your next six months for her. No Complaint, no grievance, no expectation of anything from anybody, specially her,
Try to scarify your time . your money, your respect and ego, and hatred of your parents for doing so. Remember, you will never get this opportunity , a “Dharam, A prayer to God, a Yatra, a meditation, a Yagna ” as good as this.
Believe you ar going to die within three months, and you decided to offere all happiness that you can deliver to your wife and your baby, Everything, no reservation, nothing you are going to take to heaven / or hell/
The pain that you may undergo, will certainly yield you, great Life long pleasure in your life.
Court, and World cannot deliver justice, it is manmade. God do not forget anything, he will reward you. Have faith, Shradhdha & Sabury.
Go to your wife, even if they kick you out 10 times in a month, go every 3 days , & just smile if they insult you. Determine.
Do not let your in laws – wife, your exercise of 6 months. Take it as Yoga.
Do it honestly, not a Drama.
God Bless You,
Adv Shroff
10-12-2011
M.Sheik Mohammed Ali
(Expert) 10 December 2011
yes, if you not loose your wife than file a RCR case against her.
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 10 December 2011
Anyways her divorce petition is pre-mature and would be hit by Sec 14 of HMA.
Also, maybe you could try RCR, but rather than that, try for conciliation proceedings and mediation at the court where the said case is filed.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
harassed.by.498a@gmail.com
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 11 December 2011
Nothing remains to be added in the detailed replies already submitted.
