Divorce through deceit
vijay
(Querist) 10 June 2012
This query is : Resolved
Everything was fine but when there was supersetition in my job,it had terrible impact,we loss face in society and all went wrong and worse was, when my wife start saying I had held her responsible for the supersession becuase of her interference in my job.Ultimatly, she forced me to sign divorce papers in the year 2005 ,if not she will commit suicide or such thing, even not bothering the fate of our two children who were 11 and 12 years old,further, she had told me that she want freedom and going by this ritual only for name sake and she will come back to me again/re-marry.
She is presently saying with another man who has left his wife for my ex wife and staying till now with her together.I don't want to lose my ex wife and I want her to come back,under the circumstances how to go about to achive.May be you must be thinking I may be stupid,but that is so.Please advice
ajay sethi
(Expert) 10 June 2012
you had agreed to divorce in 2005 . more than 7 years have passed now .
if she has found happiness with another man dont interfere . she is free now . no more your wife .
find another girl and remarry . you cant force her to come back to you .
vijay
(Querist) 10 June 2012
Thank you very much for your prompt reply.You are absolutely right.If you go by logical thinking its right.I also feel so.But since the man with whom she is staying has not divorced his previous wife ,he can't be techinically husband of my ex wife.So with a hope that she may return, I am waiting rather foolishly.With little knowledge I have, I discovered that his wife can't file a case of adultry and at the most can go for divorce.Is there any other way to drive away this man?
SAINATH DEVALLA
(Expert) 11 June 2012
Whether he is technically husband of your wife is immaterial to you.She has left you once for all.Don't keep on thinking about her and spoil your professional life.Where are your children now?
K.K.Ganguly
(Expert) 11 June 2012
I could not understand why the wife of the other man can not file suit for adultery? She is still his wife. She can teach him a very good lesson but not you. You have no locus standii here legally.
vijay
(Querist) 11 June 2012
Dear Experts,with ref to the querry of Sh Sainath devalla,the children are with me.With ref to querry of Sh KK Ganguly, his wife wanted to do so but as per the prevailing law she can't do.If you think she can do, kindly quote relevent section of the acts please.
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 20 June 2012
Don't dwell on it. Don't mess with other people's lives.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
harassed.by.498a@gmail.com
vijay
(Querist) 20 June 2012
With due apology,I could not understand.Other people have messed with my life than I messed with other people !!
well as far as "don't dwell on it" is concerned,i agree with you,but i am helpless,I am not able to accept the fact that she has deserted me.
