Marital dispute query
JATINDER SINGH
(Querist) 19 October 2013
This query is : Resolved
WHAT CAN A HUSBAND DO TO GET RELIEF AS DIVORCE EARLY
ajay sethi
(Expert) 19 October 2013
state complete facts of your case . if you want early divorce get it by mutual consent
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 19 October 2013
Cases and causes have no mathematical resolutions.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 19 October 2013
There is no such magic potion invented so far.
Ms.Nirmala P.Rao
(Expert) 19 October 2013
Apply for Divorce by mutual consent and now a days courts are making it easy to grant divorce for couples on this ground within a day or two of their filing divorce case in the family court- if it is satisfied that they can't go on pulling their marriage bond any longer.Recent Supreme court decisions are there on this point.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 19 October 2013
6 months period is minimum in case of MCD.
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 20 October 2013
MCD would be possible only when you both have desire to part which your query does not hint.
There is a saying 'meeaan bibi rajee tab kya
karega kazi'
When parties agree there is no dispute to be resolved by a JUDGE.
JATINDER SINGH
(Querist) 20 October 2013
FIRST OF ALL THANKS TO ALL THE REVEREND PERSONS.NOW MY PROBLEM IS THAT SHE IS NOT WILLING TO DIVORCE BUT ALSO IS NOT LIVING WITH ME.ACTUALLY SHE IS UNDER THE NEGATIVE INFLUENCE OF HER FATHER.WE BOTH ARE GOVT. SERVANTS.BUT WE BOTH ARE FOOLISH.I CAN SAY OUR LITERACY IS IN VAIN IF WE CAN NOT UNDERSTAND THE REAL TRUTHS OF LIFE.SHE BROUGHT ME TO THE CITY POLICE FOR FALSE BEATING CASE.MY FATHER COULD NOT BEAR THAT SHOCK AND DIED IN TENSION.ON MY FATHER CREMATION SHE AND NOBODY FROM MY IN-LAWS CAME ON ANY RITUAL.AFTER THAT HER FATHER LEFT HER ON RENT IN MY CITY BECAUSE SHE IS WORKING NEAR MY CITY.AFTER 5 MONTHS LIVING SEPARATELY ONE DAY SHE CALLED ME AND SAID I WILL DIE OR OTHERWISE TAKE ME WITH U MOREOVER SHE SAID THAT SHE WILL NEVER MOVE TO HER PATERNAL FAMILY.I DISCUSSED WITH MY MOTHER AND SHE SAID OH MY SON YOU CAN THINK ABOUT YOUR OWN LIFE I HAVE NO PROBLEM IF U COMPROMISE BUT SHE ALSO SAID THAT MY CONSCIENCE DOES NOT ALLOW TO PERMIT HER TO ENTER IN YOUR FATHER'S HOUSE BECAUSE DUE TO HER MY HUSBAND DIED AND MAINLY SHE DID NOT COME ON DEMISE.SO FINALLY I WENT TO HER ON RENT WHERE SHE WAS RESIDING.BUT OUR DISPUTE DID NOT COME TO HALT.THERE SHE BECAME MORE FEARLESS.SHE CROSSED ALL THE LIMITS TO INSULT ME SO AFTER LIVING 8 MONTHS WITH HER WHEN I COULD NOT BEAR THE INSULT I LEFT HER AND CAME TO MY OWN HOME. THEN SHE AGAIN STARTED TO CONFESS.DAY AND NIGHT SHE CONTINUED TO FEEL SORRY THROUGH PHONE CALLS SMS AND FACEBOOK BUT THIS TIME I DID NOT WANT TO FALL IN HER TRAP SO I DID NOT BELIEVE HER.SHE FELT SORRY FOR MINIMUM ONE MONTH BUT I FILED A CASE OF HARASMENT OF 5 YEARS AGAINST HER IN LOCAL DISTRICT POLICE.SHE WAS SUMMONED IN WOMEN CELL.HER FATHER APPROACHED OUR LOCAL POLITICAL LEADER AND ALSO GREASED THE PALMS OF POLICE OFFICIALS SO THERE WAS NO HEARING OF MY HARASSMENT.WHEN WE WERE MADE SIT IN THE WOMEN CELL SHE SAID THAT SHE WILL LIVE ONLY WITH ME AND I ALSO AGREED AND SAID POLICE TO SEND HER WITH ME.BUT THEN HER FATHER AND SHE SET THREE CONDITIONS. 1.SHE WILL GO TO IN-LAWS HOUSE IF HER HUSBAND OWNS HIS PROPERTY SHARE TO HIMSELF OF HIS MOTHER.2.SHE HAD PURCHASED A FLAT THROUGH HER OWN SALARY IN HER OWN CITY SURROUNDING BUT I MENTION HERE THAT I NEVER KNEW ABOUT THAT FLAT SHE ALSO DID NOT TELL ME AND ALMOST WITHOUT MUTUAL CONSENT SO I WAS PRESSURISED TO LEAVE MY NATIVE CITY AND TO BECOME A "GHARJAWAAI"3.I WAS PRESSURISED TO GO BACK THERE ON RENT WHERE WE WERE NOW RESIDING ON RENT SO I MENTION HERE THAT I DID NOT LIKE THE CULTURE OF THAT RENTAL HOUSE BUT WHEN I HAD GONE THERE IN BEGINNING I DID NOT KNOW BECAUSE THE OWNER OF RENTAL HOUSE WAS A CHARACTERLESS OLD MAN AND HIS OWN MARRIED DAUGHTER WAS LIVIN WITH HIM HE ALSO SUPPORTED MY OPPONENTS.SO ALL THE CONDITIONS I DID NOT ACCEPT.I ALSO SAID TO POLICE THAT I CAN MANAGE TO LIVE WITH HER AND I ALSO SAID THAT I CAN STAY ON ANOTHER RENTAL HOUSE FOR THE TIME BEING AND THEN I WILL BUILD MY OWN HOME ON MY PLOT.BUT SHE UNDER THE INFLUENCE OF FATHER DID NOT MOVE WITH ME.OUR STATEMENTS WERE TAKEN IN BLACK AND WHITE AND IN WOMEN CELL FILE WAS CLOSED.NOW 8 MONTHS HAVE PASSED OF OUR SEPERATION AND I HEARD THAT SHE HAD GOT TRANSFER FROM MY CITY AND HAD GONE TO HER PATERNAL CITY AREA SO I AM HELPLESS WHAT TO DO.SHE DOES NOT LEAVE ME AND ALSO DOES NOT LIVE WITH ME.I AM BEING CONTINUALLY HARASSED BY HER AND HER FATHER.6 YEARS HAVE ALREADY PASSED. I AM READY WHETHER SHE SHOULD LEAVE HER FATHER AND LIVE WITH ME OR OTHERWISE SHE SHOULD THINK UPON LONG LIFE AND GIVE ME DIVORCE.I DON'T WANT TO INDULDGE IN ANY LITIGATION.SORRY I HAVE WRITTEN SO LENGTHY BUT I AM HELPLESS SO PLEASE REPLY. SHE MENTALLY DISTURBED ME BUT EVEN NOW I THINK IF SHE USES HER OWN MIND AND TAKES HER OWN DECISION WITHOUT THE INFLUENCE OF HER FATHER THEN THERE ARE CHANCES OF SETTLEMENT BUT AFSOS HER FATHER EXPERIMENTS HIS OWN STUBBORN NATURE BECAUSE HE DID NOT GO TO HIS IN-LAWS FOR 19 YEARS AND ALSO OPENLY SAYS IN SOCIETY.HE IS HANDICAPPED AND HE IS LIKE THAT FELLOW WHO IS DIFFERENT FROM SOCIETY AND ALWAYS SAYS 2 AND 2 MAKE 5.HE DOES NOT UNDERSTAND THE IMPORTANCE OF RELATIONS. HE TAKES THESE RELATIONS LIKE INDIA AND PAK MATCH IN WHICH HE ONLY WANTS TO WIN.BUT HE FOOLISH FELLOW DOES NOT FOLLOW THAT THIS IS THE LIFE OF A DAUGHTER WHICH IS BEING SPOILED BY HIM.
JATINDER SINGH
(Querist) 20 October 2013
SORRY FOR THE INCONVENIENCE FOR WRITING SO LENGTHY BUT PLEASE READ AND ADVISE ME
