Divorce
Ramesh
(Querist) 30 January 2017
This query is : Resolved
My name is Ramesh.I and my wife are living separately for 2and half years after I left her to her parents home when her bad and insulting behaviour became intolerable.during this period many attempts were made for reconciliation and also made offer for MCD.when nothing helped I approached local lawyer who suggested filing divorce petition on ground of desertion and mental cruelty.my question is should I follow his advice.it is now impossible for me to live with her.please advice.
Adv. Yogen Kakade
(Expert) 31 January 2017
Follow your lawyer.. and remember that you left her at her parents house.. she has not deserted you.. think about the consequences and go ahead.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 31 January 2017
Any action / notice / divorce case would invite and result in reaction / trouble for you and your family.
The other party may file cases of 498A, DV Act on you and family.
Try for amicable settlement first, through relatives / common friends / society effective people.
If not possible try for MCD.
Ramesh
(Querist) 01 February 2017
Sir,it is almost 3 yrs.we are living separately and despite many attempts of reconciliation from our side she and her parents are very adamant.i think they just want to harass me as I did not agree to leave my aging parents to settle in another house.i am the only son of my parents although I never asked her to take care of my parents she will also object if I took some care of them.now I am ready to face whatever retaliatory action she takes.i know I have done nothing wrong.thanks.
Ramesh
(Querist) 01 February 2017
Sir,it is almost 3 yrs.we are living separately and despite many attempts of reconciliation from our side she and her parents are very adamant.i think they just want to harass me as I did not agree to leave my aging parents to settle in another house.i am the only son of my parents although I never asked her to take care of my parents she will also object if I took some care of them.now I am ready to face whatever retaliatory action she takes.i know I have done nothing wrong.thanks.
Ramesh
(Querist) 01 February 2017
Sir,it is almost 3 yrs.we are living separately and despite many attempts of reconciliation from our side she and her parents are very adamant.i think they just want to harass me as I did not agree to leave my aging parents to settle in another house.i am the only son of my parents although I never asked her to take care of my parents she will also object if I took some care of them.now I am ready to face whatever retaliatory action she takes.i know I have done nothing wrong.thanks.
Ramesh
(Querist) 01 February 2017
Sir,it is almost 3 yrs.we are living separately and despite many attempts of reconciliation from our side she and her parents are very adamant.i think they just want to harass me as I did not agree to leave my aging parents to settle in another house.i am the only son of my parents although I never asked her to take care of my parents she will also object if I took some care of them.now I am ready to face whatever retaliatory action she takes.i know I have done nothing wrong.thanks.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 01 February 2017
Hope you have evidence to establish your contentions...............e.g; "espite many attempts of reconciliation from our side she and her parents are very adamant.".
Litigation can be indeed stressful and costly also.
Take some time and your counsel's help to gather irrefutable evidence.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 01 February 2017
Advised already, nothing new to add in the circumstances.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 01 February 2017
Mr. Rajendra K Goyal has advised you earlier also in your queries.
The retaliation can not be ruled out.
You are prepared for it does not mean that you may jump for it.
Therefore consider all pros and cons before you get tempted.
At the same time gather irrefutable evidence.
Consider if your employer gets carried away and become vindictive.
You may have to counter at many fronts.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 01 February 2017
I have sent some links to you.
Still it is reiterated that:
Litigation can be indeed stressful and costly also...........consider all pros and cons before you get tempted........and try for MCD.
It can be quick and easy.
Ramesh
(Querist) 02 February 2017
Thanks goyal sir,Thanks Kumar Doab sir for very useful advices.I will definitely keep all these in mind and follow my advocate,s advice.
