Can live with former lover nd file divorce petition ?
Anu
(Querist) 28 March 2016
This query is : Resolved
Hello Sir, Really need some suggestions,
I was in a 5 years long relationship with a guy, we both loved each other.
We got involved in this because we thought we can be life partners, we
assumes that we are married. however unfortunately i married to some
another guy whom my parents introduced me 5 or 6 months back, as they
wanted me to marry in same caste at any cost. now its almost 2 and
half months of my marriage, i came to know this guy is already a
divorcee (which my family member knows before my marriege), heavy
alcoholic (drinks almost dailly), abuses me daily, have beaten me
brutally twice, even her younger sister have slapped me, now i am in
my parents house for holi festival have told everything to my parents
they are not ready to help me to file a divorce petition, my parents
have told me that i have to adjust with him or his insane family,
but now i want to unite with my former lover for whole life, i realize
that i did big mistake for sake of my family,
So my question is can i go and live with my former lover and apply for
divorce from the location he is working? because i do'nt have anyone
in my life to help me except him.
Waiting for suggestions.
Adv. Yogen Kakade
(Expert) 28 March 2016
First of all It's only two and half months of your marriage. You won't be able to get the divorce on the basis of the facts mentioned by you. You will have to wait for one year to complete your marriage. And then you can file a petition with justified grounds.
Secondly, before divorce you cannot stay with some other person.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 28 March 2016
Repeated query, no reply:
http://www.lawyersclubindia.com/experts/Can-I-live-with-former-lover-n-file-petition-for-divorce--591371.asp#.VvlHh-J97IU
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 29 March 2016
if you love that man then why do you want him to be in jail on charge of adultery.
SAINATH DEVALLA
(Expert) 30 March 2016
U can live with anyone,but it amounts to adultery.lf all the contents of UR query are true,U have to wait for another 10 months to get legally separated from UR official husband.Any wrong step by U during this period could lead U into further problems.
Hence try to forget UR paramour and try to set UR martial life on the right path.U do not have the support of UR parents, hence don't destroy not only UR life but of others too.
Guest
(Expert) 30 March 2016
Divorce Could be Applied Only after 1 year of completion of Marriage.Any affair with out sider with out Divorce is Illegal and Adultery.Try to Modify and Reconcile with your husband for a Peaceful Life.If No Other Option convince your husband for Mutual Consent Divorce which would be Completed in 6 months.Well Advised by Adv.Yogen
