salary
Sharmila.W
(Querist) 19 September 2017
This query is : Resolved
I am working as a teacher in a private school from 2014 my salary is 14000rs. I used to pay the rent Rs. 7000 for the house we stay.remaining amount i used to spend for my children. Since I have not completed my b.ed i applied for it in bangalore university I was said totally its 1,30,000rs. My husbnd never came forward to help me. My father helped me with 80,000rs remaining I am struggling to pay the fees so my husbnd forced me to give the salary but I stopped giving him. He never speaks to me from past one year due to a family problm. Should I give him salary further or no?
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 19 September 2017
You never asked whether you are compelled to give or bound to give salary to husband
Guest
(Expert) 19 September 2017
No legal issue seems to be there.
Guest
(Expert) 19 September 2017
If you tend to venture to make your personal or domestic problem as a legal problem, the legal community can give only one advice, i.e., to file a case in the court of law, which may not only be expensive but can also create hurdles for your higher studies.
So, it will be better, if you take advice from your parents and other elders of both the sides.
Rest depends upon your own wisdom.
Guest
(Expert) 19 September 2017
Mr. Sudhir Mumar has already pointed out deficiency in expression of your problem.
Guest
(Expert) 19 September 2017
Mr. Dhingra's advice seems to cover both ethical as well as legal aspects of the problem.
P. Venu
(Expert) 19 September 2017
Make a consolidated posting making a focussed query instead posting issues or your anxieties in piecemeal.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 19 September 2017
Giving pay or any money to your husband is purely your personal matter and you are to decide on it.
Mutual understanding and cooperation is necessary for saving the marriage from breaking.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 19 September 2017
Your spouse has done nothing other than stopping to have dialogue with you, after you stopped giving the salary.
Ask your spouse to share and contribute to household expense, in person and/or thru common relatives, elders of the family, shrude and smart mediators that can remain and gentle and amiable and break the ice with your spouse and help to achieve dialogue and understanding.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 19 September 2017
Dies your spouse earn any income!
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 19 September 2017
Same Query;
http://www.lawyersclubindia.com/experts/Mother-in-law-656041.asp
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 20 September 2017
Stop payment of salary and discuss with your husband and mother in-law.
Guest
(Expert) 20 September 2017
Another set of 3 vague and irrelevant posts of Mr. Kumar Doab, as a race towards top of the hall of fame. Buck up Mr. Doab!
Guest
(Expert) 20 September 2017
People can't be misled merely by vague and misleading posts, even if he rides at the top of the hall of fame.
